Look better by NOT wearing these T-shirts

1. Worn out bacon collars. Do not wear a T-shirt where the collar is all messed up.
2. Deep v-necks. A simple v-neck can make your shoulders appear broader and draw the eye down. But if the v-neck is super deep, you can look like a super douche. Also, never wear a deep v. It used to be stylish, but it’s not anymore. It shows a lot of man cleavage, which needs to be eliminated from your wardrobe. 
3. Too long sleeves. If sleeves come down too long, your arms will look skinny. You want to make your guns look jacked by exposing your triceps, which make up 2/3 the size of your arm. So, if your sleeve covers your entire arm, it will look teeny weenie. If your shirt sleeves are too long, cuff them.
4. Not the proper length. Proper T-shirt proportion is all about nailing the length. Whether it is too short or too long, test to see. First, if you lift your arms up and you can see your midsection, your shirt is too short. When too short, you look like you’re wearing a little boy’s T-shirt. If you’re standing straight and your T-shirt comes to the bottom of your crotch, the shirt is too long. When too long, your legs look super short.
   
5. Striped. T-shirts look best when solid because striped men look like little kids. They are less refined and can’t be dressed up. 
6. Oversized or too tight. These will make you look super skinny and won’t accentuate your positive attributes. Reciprocally, if you see a lot of pulling or whiskering or if you can see your gut, that’s bad. If you lift your arms up, you should not see your midsection.
7. Athletic. Sports T-shirts like Nike shirts are casual for working out but look too casual for dates or social events. Avoid sports shirts that are super shiny or tight. Also, avoid graphics and logos unless they’re very minimal. You should not have logos if you want to dress up a T-shirt.
8. Offensive. Even if you think it’s funny, you will look low-budget and low-class when someone sees an offensive graphic or word on your T-shirt. Don’t look like a loser.

What T-shirts you SHOULD wear

If you wear the appropriate T-shirt, you can wear it seamlessly with shorts, jeans, khakis, or even underneath the suit. Make sure the proportions fit you. ‘No pocket’ T-shirts will be more versatile. In my opinion, you should have a white and black T-shirt in your wardrobe. Black can be worn with many looks and is more dangerous and mysterious. White T-shirts can get discolored and yellow pits. Make sure that you inspect your white T-shirts. You can also opt for muted or some dude colors that are more aesthetic and timeless.

My favorite T-shirts come from Cuts, featuring the perfect fit and style, such as a flat front, crew neck, and split hem. Cuts T-shirts fit you strategically snugly in the chest and arms.

1. Black suits — black suits are never an option unless you’re attending a funeral. Otherwise, black is horrible. Go for charcoal gray or navy blue instead.
2. Dirty shoes — nasty and scuffed shoes are a deal breaker. Everyone notices shoes, so you don’t want to be rocking dirty kicks.
3. Lame glasses — glasses are a potential opportunity, but they can turn into a liability for some guys. You want frames that add interest, have structure and detail, and are an accessory for your face. They can balance your face and make you look more attractive and interesting. Don’t rock Uncle Barry’s glasses!
4. Lint and pet fur — use a lint roller, gentlemen! Also, invest in a pill ball shaver on Amazon to rid yourself of fabric balls.
5. Oversized sweaters — you need to wear clothing that fits to look your best. Opt for a v-neck to make your face look more angular, and your shoulders appear wider.
6. Little boy polo shirts — don’t get caught in a little boy polo or dorky dad polo. Collars and Co. has perfected the polo with their collars and fabric.
7. Fake leather jackets — invest in a higher quality leather jacket so you don’t look low-budget in a fake. Bombers are an incredible jacket that every single dude needs.
8. Wife beaters — the wife beater is one of the most douchy shirts a dude can rock solo. Opt for a more refined tank from H&M that looks much more acceptable and put together.
9. Jammed pockets — a bunch of crap in your pockets distort the line of your pants and package.
10. These jeans — dad jeans, distressed, and tight jeans are all a big ‘no.’
11. Big, thick belts — big belts and belt buckles are out of style. But make sure, if you’re wearing a belt, that it matches and coordinates with your shoes in leather and finish. Fabric belts are a great option if going casual, and they don’t need to match your shoes, but they need to coordinate.
12. Offensive tee shirts — don’t wear stupid graphic tee shirts. A clean, classic tee is optimal, whether a crew or v-neck. You can use these to layer with as well. Make sure they fit, and make sure you don’t cover your triceps.

All pants are not created equal. Some are created super tight, some too big and baggy, and some too casual. Make sure you’re wearing pants that make you look sexy. Always choose sexy!

Don’t kill your style with FUGLY pants!

1. Puddling. Nothing will make you more dumpy, frumpy, and more looking like a math teacher than wearing big baggy pants. To maximize your aesthetic, you want pants the proper length. If wearing slacks, a little break is fine. But if you’re wearing jeans, a little stack is OK. But if you’re wearing something big and baggy (like drooping ball skin around your shoes), you must tighten it up. Either get them hemmed & tapered or size down. You may not be as tall as you think you are.
2. Extra room. If you have a lot of fabric in the crotch, it’ll make your legs look super short and throw off your proportions. If you have a lot of extra room in your legs, you need to tighten it up.
3. Too tight. Your jeans are too tight if you can tell that you’re circumcised. Your jeans are too tight if you can see your hamstring glute transition. You want to be able to pinch about an inch on either side of your thigh when you’re standing.
4. Overly distressed. If you have a bunch of tearing or ripping and a lot of distressing, such as artificial discoloration, you will look stupid. Distressed jeans were popular about eight years ago, but not anymore. You want to ensure pants are tailored, fit properly, and are not overly beaten up or distressed.
5. Ath-loser-wear – you look like a loser if you’re wearing big, baggy, gigantic workout pants or janky-ass joggers. You need to upgrade the quality and style of your casual wardrobe. Check out Cuts Clothing. You can dress their joggers up or down. Be sure to check out my examples.
6. Flaring pockets. When pockets are on the sides of the pants, flaring can happen (unlike denim with front pockets). The pockets will pop out if pants with side pockets are too small for your package and booty. Typically, you can size up in the waist for extra room. The downside to sizing up is that the pants will also be oversized in other areas. So, have them tailored — both shortened and tapered. One alteration that guys neglect to think about is tapering. They’ll have their pants shortened but not tapered, making them look too wide at the ankle.
7. Cuffed & pleated. Cuffs typically look good on 6’2 models. If you’re not, you’ll look shorter. Anything that breaks that visual line from your shoulders to your ankle must be eliminated. Cuffs are one of those details that will break the visual line. Typically, when you see cuffed pants, you’ll also see pleats. Pleats will make you look absolutely horrible. The standard dude does not look good in pleats because they’re designed to be pulled up to the navel for pleats to lay flat. Most dudes wear their pants lower, which opens the pleats, making them look pear-shaped. They’ll have a lot of extra fabric around the midsection, making them look soft and doughy. This is not sexy.

Styles of sweaters

Cardigan, pullovers (mock, crew, v-necks, quarter zip, turtleneck), and full zips.

Fabrics

Cotton, cable knit, and Merino wool (best for dressing up). Never wear a fuzzy or balled sweater. Shave it off. Also, use a lint roller for crap stuck to your sweater.

Fit

Oversized is a trend, but you should have it fit you properly; if not, it will look too casual.

Collar

V-neck is most practical for dressing up. Sure, you can dress up a crew, but v-necks are a better (and sexier) choice. 

Underneath

Opt for a rigid collar. Standard polo collars look messy and are too casual. 

‘Dress-up your sweater’ outfits

• Lightweight turtleneck with a suit auto elevates your aesthetic
• Cable knit sweater + loafers
• Cardigan with loafers in a monochromatic look
• A v-neck sweater makes a dressy casual date option

Young guys’ biggest complaints are that they aren’t respected, and a quick solution is to upgrade and elevate their style and aesthetic. Wear clothing that fits, get rid of logos and graphics, and wear clothing that’s timeless and elegant. It doesn’t matter how young you are; you will look better than your peers. On the flip side, if you’re an older dude ready to embrace a better aesthetic, take some chances and wear clothing that fits you, play around with colors, and find clothing that makes you feel like the man.

How to look your best AT ANY AGE!

Overdress. It doesn’t matter if you’re 14 or 44; get into the habit of always dressing above the level of dress in the room. If you do, you will always look appropriate and stylish. One aspect that makes young men look immature is being underdressed, which a simple solution is being overdressed. You’ll look better than everybody else in the room.

Know where you’re shopping. Don’t wear clothing that is made for the younger generation. Certain stores are designed specifically for teens and young 20-year-olds. Some stores skew older, like Brooks Brothers, which is a great store but will look more old-money aesthetic that lends itself to an older generation.

Don’t plaster brands and logos. One of the mistakes that many younger guys make is thinking flashy logos are stylish. Actually, they make men look youthful and young. Conversely, if an older guy wears the same thing, it will make him look ridiculous.

Avoid wearing overly-distressed anything. Overly distressed or even overly stylized will make you look youthful. And if you’re an older gentleman, but bling on your denim looks stupid. If you’re wearing super tight jeans, you also look silly. But lots of holes or distressed anything will make you look foolish.

Consider trends carefully. Younger guys can pull off wearing trendy items but understand that trends will come and go quickly. When older gentlemen between 30 and 50 go trendy, they look like they’re trying too hard. If you’re more mature, avoid trends and go to more classic styles.

Understand different levels of casual dress. You can dress as an older gentleman and look fantastic, timeless, and sexy wearing a simple hoodie and joggers. But there’s a difference between that and even more casual options that a younger guy could get away with wearing, such as an everyday hoodie and sweatpants. Super casual clothing looks better on younger men, but that doesn’t mean younger men wouldn’t look better and more mature in more refined, elevated-quality casual clothing.

Do not wear striped shirts. More specifically, do not wear striped Polo shirts. Polo shirts can make a lot of guys look ridiculous, even young dudes. A worn-out Polo especially looks stupid. Elevate and upgrade your Polo with Collar and Co. polos, designed to look like dress shirts. They solve the problem with Polo collars, as theirs are rigid and not floppy. This makes them more dressy and sexy — perfect for layering. Check out Collars & Co. and use code ALPHAM for a special limited-time discount on your order!

Avoid big and baggy clothing. Big and baggy clothing doesn’t look great on anybody. It’s a current trend more suited toward the younger demographic. First, baggy clothing makes everyone look short. Also, big and baggy clothing is sloppy. The general rule is always to dress in clothing that fits your body, which goes for shirts, pants, and outerwear.

Tailored looks amazing. An item will look fantastic regardless of age if it is tailored correctly. Tailoring is one of the quickest ways to make yourself look badass. A cheap suit looks crunchy, the shoulders are big & bulky, the lapels are super thin, and the pants are pulling, bagging, and bunching at the ankle. When tailoring a suit, address the jacket as well as the pants. Make sure the pants get tapered down by the ankle.

Too tight is too much. Regardless of age, you must ensure your pants are not too tight. Also, make sure your pants don’t bunch at the pockets and pull with a lot of whispering. Tightness in the crotch indicates that the pants are too tight and need to be sized up.

Avoid too many accessories. Whether young or old, you look stupid with too many accessories. Most older dudes cannot pull off earrings. Chains and necklaces should be limited to one or two, which also applies to bracelets. And wear one ring, maybe two. Last, Apple watches are a big thumbs down.

Consider your shoes. Younger guys look amazing in more stylized shoes because they’re more trendy. Conversely, older dudes wearing running shoes with anything other than athletic gear look horrible. Upgrade the quality of your sneakers to a bit more stylized and avoid big bulky trends that look bad on everybody. Ensure the toe box is natural and the shoe has a simple, clean aesthetic.

So this got me thinking of it more about sexy date outfit ideas that are guaranteed to drive spicy señoritos loco. I want you to take these outfits as inspiration and modify them to make them your own. Check out the video for more details and inspiration.

The foundations for IRRESISTIBLE date style

1. Dark Monochromatic. Joggers, full zip up, mock neck shirt, and black minimal leather sneakers.
2. Refined Rugged. Suede Chelsea boots, medium wash denim, white henley, and navy blue pea coat.
3. Denim. Jeans, minimal sneakers, black t-shirt, bomber jacket. You can change it up with Chelsea boots, a henley, a light sweater, or a different jacket
4. Cardigan. Cardigan with a white t-shirt, green cotton pants cuffed, and sneakers.
5. Mix and Match. Pants from a suit, navy v-neck sweater, and Oxford shoes.

Stop wearing these types of shirts

1. Striped. Stripes are pretty bad as a general rule., especially horizontal stripes. Horizontal stripes will make you look lighter and like a little boy. As you mature, go for more solid and some dude. You will look more refined and sexy.
2. Too tight. Tight shirts and button-ups are not good. If you sit down and your buttons look ready to pop, you need to size up.
3. Pit stains. If your white shirts have pit stains, throw them out. You can solve this problem by using an antiperspirant without aluminum.
4. Big collars. Never wear a button-up shirt that has an oversized collar. It may be more comfortable, but it will look too big.
5. Oversized. (a) you can get away with oversized trends when you’re younger. It looks more appropriate. But you should avoid it when you’re a grown-ass man because it’ll make you look sloppy. (b) Also, make sure your sleeves aren’t too long. You need to ensure your arms look muscular and expose a little tricep. If you’re covering them up by wearing an oversized sleeve, your arms will look super skinny.
6. Tank tops and wife beaters. As a general rule, adult men look a bit stupid wearing tank tops and wife-beaters. You’ll look like a guido.
7. Collars that have quit. Have a collar that is up. Collars & Co polos kick the crap out of standard polos, which have floppy collars. You want an elevated polo, like these from Collars & Co.
8. Sweaters with balls & fur. Never wear a sweater that has a lot of sweater fuzz. Invest in a shaver from Amazon, which is super affordable. And while you’re at it, grab a lint roller for fur and hair removal.
9. Offensive t-shirts or sweatshirts. You may think it’s funny, but it’s not funny. Do not wear anything defensive.
10. Youthful hoodies. Hoodies can make you look super childish and immature. Make sure it’s not gigantic. Opt for a hoodie that’s more stylized. Also, graphics on the sleeves or across the chest will make you look youthful.
11. Overly buttoned. You need to unbutton two buttons minimum. You can unbutton three buttons at the maximum and ensure you do not have an undershirt visible.
12. Sloppy sleeve rolls. When wearing a button-up, ensure your rolls are clean instead of big and floppy. You want to make your forearm look more prominent and sexier because women dig a dude’s forearm.
13. Matching jeans perfectly.
14. Past your crotch. If the shirt comes past your crotch, it’s too long. You want to make sure that it is halfway between the bottom part of your crotch and your button.
15. Funny holiday shirts. If you wear it to a party, that’s fine. But opting to wear it because you think it will be fun and zany is not a good idea.

1. Leather jackets. Controversy surrounds whether or not a man should wear leather jackets over the age of 30. I say F them. They have no idea what they’re talking about if you wear a leather jacket and follow the rules. It has to be real leather, it can’t be big and baggy, and it must coordinate with your style. I demonstrate some timeless jackets that work across all ages and demographics.
2. Little boy baseball hats. They make you look beautiful and immature.
3. Cheap sunglasses. These make you look cheap and terrible.
4. Stinky body spray. This also includes super popular fragrances because you will smell like her ex-boyfriend, whom she does not want to be with.
5. Backpacks. These make you look really immature.
6. Earrings and over-accessorization. There’s a fine line between looking stylish and cool and overdoing it. Wear a badass ring or chain, but you don’t want to wear 16 bracelets. Yes, a watch is great, but not an Apple watch.
7. Certain shoes. Running shoes should be reserved only for running. Tom’s and boat shoes are also a no. Instead, opt for badass matte black boots like the ones I demonstrate in the video. Boots are the great equalizer in men’s sexy footwear. They also give you a bit of height and make you look like a badass. I love Chelsea boots because they’re clean with no shoelaces to get hung up on your pants. You can add richness and texture to your outfit by wearing a pair of suede Chelsea boots. Chukkas are also another must-have that can be paired with jeans or chinos. One of the most beautiful pairs of boots that I own are wing tip rogue dress boots; I get so many compliments from them.
8. Bad underwear. These are negative if you’re rocking a pair of little boy boxers or tighty whities. You need to make sure your underwear is smooth and sexy.
9. Deep v-necks. Showing a little man cleavage is okay by just unbuttoning your shirt to show it off, but not a deep v.
10. Wife beaters. Instead of wearing a wife beater, up for a simple white tank that is not too tight and it’s a bit looser. It is more appropriate than a wife beater.
11. Boxy, baggie suits. A suit will give you the opportunity to look unbelievable, but unfortunately, too many guys walk into a store and take one off the rack. It’s too baggy and boxy, making them look dumpy and dorky like a dad. You don’t need to spend much, but ensure your suit is tailored and tapered to your body.
12. Dad jeans. You need to make sure your jeans fit you properly without being too tight or too loose, falling off your ass.
13. Open-toed shoes with nasty toes and nails. Ensure your feet are cared for, and do not wear flip-flops or sandals with socks.
14. Dorky polos.
15. Too many patterns. Make sure the patterns are subdued and you’re not wearing multiple patterns.
16. Sloppy slob. She does not want to walk into a room with you looking like a slob. She wants you to dress with intention and style because she wants to be proud of you. She spends a lot of time and energy making herself beautiful and sexy, and you need to do the same for her.

But not all denim was created equal. Some were created big and baggy. Some were created too skinny, and some were created to make you look like a douche. If you find the perfect pair of denim, you will look smooth, stylish, confident, and sexy. Here are the jeans you should never wear as an adult man.

Adult men should avoid these types of denim

1. Too tight. If you have a bunch of pulling or whiskering in the crotch area of your pants, this is a sign that your crotch is too big or you need to size up. If your fly is perpetually open, this is another sign that your package is huge or you need to size up. Another sign is if you can see a wedgie or any type of cheek definition, your jeans are too tight. You need to have a little room but still showcase and highlight your booty. You should be able to pinch about an inch of fabric on either side of your thigh. If you have big thighs, this may be a bit more challenging, but the good news is you can find athletic tapered denim, which will allow for more room in the crotch, thighs, and glutes region.
2. Too baggy. Dad jeans are baggy, and they’re kind of a trend, but the truth is that they don’t look good on most guys. If you’re young or really stylish, they may be okay, but most of us can’t get away with Dad jeans because we’ll look short and dumpy.
3. Puddling. If your jeans are too long, you’ll have puddling at your ankles, which is not ideal. You do not want a bunch of extra fabric down at your ankles. You don’t want denim that has been walked or stepped on, discolored, and beaten up at the bottom. But you also don’t want them too short. I’m not talking about cuffing or cropping to show your ankle; I’m talking about jeans that are too short. A lot of super-tall men have difficulty finding jeans that are long enough. High-end designer jeans will have longer options. If you’re a shorter guy, most of the jeans sold in stores will not be short enough, but you can go online and find options.
4. Casual jeans dressed up. A lot of men make the mistake of thinking that casual, lighter-wash jeans that have a little bit of distressing can be dressed up with dress shoes and a sports coat, possibly a sweater. They cannot. If you want to dress up jeans, they must be standard, dark-wash, non-distressed jeans. Further, do not wear denim with crazy bling and details on the pockets. Keep your jeans simple with a minimal aesthetic.
5. Hanging off your booty. Pull your jeans up. If they can’t stay up, get a belt. A belt will make or break an outfit, so you must ensure your belt is not beaten up, marred, or scarred. Nasty belts are not stylish. Check out the Anson belt with micro-adjustments, which are versatile, can express your individual style, pull an outfit together, and don’t have any holes. For a limited time, head to Anson Belt & Buckle for a special deal. I recommend the Box Set, which gives you six possible belt combos for under $100. Also, sign up for their email list and “Anson TXT Club” for exclusive offers.
6. Beat up or distressed. These types of denim used to be popular about five years ago, but not anymore. You will literally look like you’re trying too hard.
7. White denim. These colored jeans make you look like you’re trying too hard as well. You look like a dork. Opt for black, gray, or dark jeans that fit you properly. It all boils down to fit and proper outfit coordination. If you’re wearing a dorky dad sweater with a pair of sexy black jeans and boat shoes, you’ll look horrible because the outfit does not coordinate or match.
8. Big cuffs. Cuffing your jeans is appropriate if they are a little too long. But you need to roll them up properly by ensuring the cuff is stylized. If you want to show off your ankle or the type of denim you’re wearing, that’s great, but you should not have to roll your jeans three to five times. It’ll look like a croissant rather than a nice, clean cuff. Get your jeans shortened or buy a shorter size.

Increase your SEXUAL gravitational pull

1. Cardigan sweater. Cardigan sweaters are fantastic for layering in the fall and winter. They’re a panty dropper of epic proportion. Cardigans come in various options; some are more stylized, some have cable knit, and some are more dressy. Check out my different ways of styling them.
2. Sunglasses. These are the quickest and easiest to make you look cooler, more mysterious, and sexier. I would go for either a club master, aviator, or wayfarer. You’ll feel like a million bucks when you put on a pair of shades.
3.  Suit. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but you must take time and money to ensure the fit is terrific. Check out my pro tips for how your well-tailored suit should fit.
4. Leather bomber jacket. These jackets are perfect because they’re casual-cool, stylus stylish, and minimal. They’re also age-appropriate for any dude.
5. Boots. No item instantly makes you look more confident, rugged, and badass than a pair of boots. Boots can also give a short dude a little boost. They look great with a simple t-shirt, a perfect pair of jeans, and a badass leather jacket. Boots can add richness, texture, and dimension to your outfit.
6. Henley. A Henley is the most perfect casual shirt because of the buttons, which open nicely and draw the eye down. Henleys also make your shoulders appear broader. Ensure your Henley is strategically tight in the chest and looser in the body. Roll up the sleeves a bit to take it to the next level; women find forearms super crazy sexy.
7. Denim. A properly fitting pair of badass denim will get a spicy senorita’s juices flowing. Ensure your pants are pulled up correctly and are not too long or baggy in the crotch. Ensure they’re strategically snug in the package without being too tight in the leg. Your jeans should not be big and baggy or stacked on your boots. Ensure they’re pulled tightly over your boots, or you look like a douche.
8. Fragrance. Attraction is inevitable with someone who smells amazing. Have a sexy fragrance on, and your gravitational pull goes up by a factor of 10.

Automatically look BADASS

1. Denim trucker jacket. This jacket is one of the most badass jackets a man can wear. Whenever I see a guy rocking denim, I automatically know that he knows what’s up about style. Many dudes aren’t comfortable wearing denim because they don’t know what to wear with it. Check out my outfit examples.
2. Field jacket. This classic jacket is super masculine with its incredibly simplistic structure that works well with different outfits. It’s super rugged and looks great when paired with jeans and minimal leather sneakers. This jacket is minimal and doesn’t have a lot of bling or flash. It’s age-appropriate for anybody.
3. Leather jacket. Every man needs a badass leather jacket. Regarding age appropriateness, you must consider the different jackets’ aesthetics. A motorcycle jacket will not look great if you’re an older man. Instead, go with a racer jacket, which is versatile, clean, and minimal. It doesn’t have an oversized collar or many zippers and flash. Also, when purchasing a leather jacket, focus on fit. Make sure your leather jacket fits properly when you zip it up. It should feel snug and not be big and baggy. Check out some of the outfits that I pair mine with. I love combining brown with black — it’s incredible. Many guys are weird about wearing black and then throwing in some brown. Not only does the combination work, but it makes you look extra badass.
4. Driving jacket. If you’re looking for a clean, classic, and badass jacket, driving jackets are unbelievably sexy and appropriate. You can dress the jacket up or down. Check out my examples. The driving jacket is a more refined version of a badass pea coat.
5. Pea coat. This jacket is a men’s fall and winter essential. I love these jackets for several reasons. They’re clean and make you look masculine and rugged. The double lapel is impressive because it will cinch your waist and make your shoulders look broad and masculine.
6. Bomber jacket. This jacket is clean and classic, making you look badass. It’s perfect for layering, which you can throw over a tee shirt, henley, or long-sleeve shirt. Bombers come in a variety of options and fabrics. I also like the puffer bomber that is more appropriate for colder months. And a leather bomber, which Thursday Boots just dropped, is badass.

1. Visible undershirt. This mistake was one of the biggest that makes a man look terrible. If you wear an undershirt to prevent sweat rings and nipples from showing, that’s cool, but you need to ensure it’s deep enough v not to be visible.
2. Improper pants. First, your pant leg should not be puddling. If you have extra fabric down at the ankle, you will look bad instantly. You need to get your pants hemmed and ensure the leg is tapered because the proportions will be incorrect if they don’t. Second, you need a nice clean drop that’s not a big wide leg. Pants that are too wide will make you look shorter. Too skinny or tight doesn’t look good either. Ensure you can pinch an inch on either side of your thigh when you reach down. Third, the rise is also important because you will look bad if it’s too long or too low. You should not be able to see camel toe or pants sagging off of your ass.
3. Fun stuff. Whether wearing fun socks or stupid fundies, you will look like a little boy, not a sexy gentleman. You must ensure you’re stylish and smooth, which does not include zany socks.
4. Specific shoes. Some shoes are deal breakers, such as dirty white shoes. Boat shoes also will make you look stupid, and athletic shoes or running shoes with anything that is non-athletic will instantly make you look bad. If you want cool kicks, wear them, but ensure the outfit is consistent. You cannot wear running shoes with business casual, for instance.
5. Dorky polos. A dorky polo can make you look like a boring, basic dad. Never wear anything with horizontal stripes or whacky collars. You will look sloppy. Also, if the sleeves are stretched out or too high or low, you’ll instantly look bad. Collars and Co. has the best polo I’ve ever worn. Unlike the standard polo, a Collars and Co. polo can look good under a suit, sweater, and more. The aesthetic is elevated, and the fit is flawless.
6. Little boy backpacks. If you throw on a typical backpack, you look ready for school. It’s not a clean or sexy look. If you want to carry a backpack, check out my example: a more minimal and aesthetically pleasing appearance. You can also carry your computer stuff for work in a crossbody bag like mine (see example in video).
7. Sunglasses inside. If you’re rocking shades indoors, you’re a douche.
8. Pet fur and lint. You must invest in a lint roller if you have fur and fuzz all over your clothes. You can also use it for dandruff. But make sure you get rid of your dandruff because there’s nothing nastier than having a bunch of dandruff on your clothes. This also includes deodorant marks.
9. Trying too hard. If you wear clothes that are too youthful or inconsistent with your look, you’ll instantly look bad. When you go into a store, and everybody in there is 20 years younger than you, it’s the wrong store.
10. Horrible hats. Fedoras will make you look dorky, and baseball hats are sometimes inappropriate. Ensure your hat is not crusty, nasty, and disgusting with sweat marks and salt rings. The bill should not be frayed, either. So, upgrade and get a new hat when needed. Also, if you want to wear a baseball hat backward, understand that people will view you as more youthful. If you wear it to the side, people will hate you. You will look stupid if you wear it forward and tuck your ears into it.

1. Biker jacket. Many people say that leather jackets are unacceptable if you’re over a certain age. This is so stupid, and it drives me crazy. A leather jacket can be clean, basic, and perfect for any aged dude. If you’re older, the motorcycle-inspired jacket doesn’t necessarily look as good because it’s edgy and stylized. But if you ride bikes, then it’s definitely super cool. The racer jacket, trucker jacket, and bomber are perfect regardless of your age. Make sure your outfit is consistent with the rest of your style.
2. Apple watch. They are not mature or stylish. They’re cool if you’re a little dude.
3. Velcro wallet, packed wallet, or fake leather wallet. These are not grown-up, and you want to ensure your pockets aren’t loaded. Don’t jam-pack a bunch of crap in your pockets that will distort and throw off your sexy vibe.
4. Extreme denim. Whether it’s super tight, super loose, super baggy, super distressed, super torn, or super ripped, if your jeans are extreme, you should never wear them as an adult.
5. Shorts past the knee. You want to expose two inches above the knee minimum as an adult. This includes swim shorts.
6. Fake designer goods. Whether or not it’s a phony belt, t-shirt, shoes, watches, or more, there is zero reason to buy something counterfeit. If you can’t afford it, save up for it or buy something else. Don’t worry about brand names and logos. There are a lot of incredibly high-quality items that are low-cost.
7. Crocs and Dad sandals. A nice clean flip-flop like a Rainbow or a Birkenstock is acceptable, but make sure your feet aren’t funky.
8. Funky body spray. This is a deal breaker for adult dudes.
9. Worn-out belts. Belts with holes can get scored and sloppy. Anson stays sexy with micro-adjustments, in which straps and buckles are interchangeable.
10. Mismatched belt + shoe leathers. Ensure your leather belt matches your shoes. Opt for a clean and simple belt that coordinates with your option outfit. Also, I love canvas straps from Anson. You can add color and pizzazz to your outfits. And a biggie here — No self-respecting dude wears a white belt with white shoes. Choose something like a camo or another badass color.
11. Air Force Ones. If you’re an adult dude, do not wear them!
12. Tons of accessories. When you’re younger, you can get away with puka shell necklaces and bunches of bracelets. But not as an adult. Don’t wear toe rings, get your belly button pierced, or have facial piercings because you’ll appear to be low-class and low-budget.
13. Face and neck tattoos. You shouldn’t have tattoos on your hands, either. You could risk not being hired.
14. Untailored suit. As an adult man, you need to spend a little cash on having a tailored suit. You need your suit to fit you.
15. Super thin ties. Don’t do it! It looks super dorky.
16. Pocket square + tie combo. Don’t ever wear this.
17. Gear on your suit. Wearing a bunch of gear, such as flowers, lapel pins, and pocket squares, with your suit is not sexy.
18. Funny socks, ties, and underwear. These aren’t funny.
19. Tighty whities. If you’re an adult man, get rid of your tighty whities. Also, boxers are stupid.
20. Fedora hats. Some hats are okay, but fedora hats aren’t anymore.
21. Backward baseball hats. These make you look like a punk. When you mature, your cap should rotate around to the front.
22. Lame sunglasses. Young dudes can get away with wearing fun sunglasses, but as you mature, you must wear a cleaner, classier, and classic pair of sunglasses or risk looking stupid.
23. Offensive tees and tanks. This includes offensive graphic tees and horrible tank tops. Do not wear homemade tank tops either because they make you look stupid and like a guido. Don’t wear wife beaters either.
24. Too loud, bright, or vibrant shirts. These will reduce your sexiness. Little boy striped polos should be avoided.
25. Too big or baggy shirt. This is not a good look. But don’t have it too tight either. Skip super deep v-necks, too.

Old money is prim and proper. It’s pretentious, a bit dated, and a bit boring. The clothing doesn’t fit that well, and the fabrics are often heavier. The cool thing about the ‘new money’ aesthetic is that it’s been surging.

But what does ‘new money’ mean?’ With the internet and entrepreneurship, more money is flowing to younger people. ‘New money’ means you can look and dress casually, but it doesn’t mean you must dress like a bum or a little kid. It’s about elevating the aesthetic with specific clothing items that fit well. It’s about accessorizing with statement pieces, including a great watch, amazing shoes, and nice outerwear.

I started to think about a formula with style rules about how to dress ‘new money.’ I want to address the four key areas of accessories, footwear, casual style, and dressy style. Before we start, if you dig any of the clothing I am including, they all come from Cuts. Remember that the ‘new money’ aesthetic understands elegance and fit. The dress is minimal, without patterns and logos. The fit and functionality are not crazy or flamboyant.

New money aesthetic

Accessories. A nice watch is a luxury item ‘new money’ may invest in instead of dripping in a bunch of ice. They’re not wearing a ton of gold or chains or blinged-out watches. They also may have a cuff or gold or silver bracelet like Cartier.

Footwear. The shoes will be slightly more elevated whether or not a cool pair of kicks like Jordans, Air Force Ones, or some limited edition footwear. They’re investing more money into footwear, synonymous with the ‘new money’ style. Opt for high quality, but the rest of the outfit will be more subdued.

Casual style. The whole idea of the ‘new money’ aesthetic is minimal design. The style is subtle, the colors are more subdued, and the fit is amazing. The ‘new money’ aesthetic is set apart from ‘old money’ through this fit. ‘Old money’ is a bit boxier; ‘new money’ wants to show off their hard work at the gym, so clothing will gravitate toward fits that accentuate positive attributes. The ‘new money’ aesthetic isn’t your daddy’s hoodie or little boy look. It’s slim fit and not baggy, with no logos or a kangaroo pouch. The style is about understated elegance and sophistication of looking casual but cool, refined, and put together. It’s about wearing higher-quality items that fit you amazingly. Outerwear will also set the ‘new money’ aesthetic apart from everybody else. Again, it’s about simple, clean designs. All pieces are easily combined to coordinate because they don’t have a lot of flash and patterns. It’s simple, clean, classic, and casual perfection.

Dressing up. New money understands the importance of tailoring, fabric, and looking amazing. It has an elevated aesthetic and elegance. It’s all about the suit construction, ensuring that the clothing fits, and that the dress shirts, shoes, and pants fit you flawlessly. ‘New money’ is not rocking a bunch of sh!t like bling, lapel flowers, pins, tie clips, tie bars, and pocket squares. It’s all about the clean, minimal aesthetic. The fit is flawless, the construction is elevated, and the fabric is amazing.

So, as I was sitting there, I noticed most of the guys were sweating their asses off, wearing dark-colored heavy suits with regular button-downs underneath. They were miserable. So I decided to do a video about some men’s summer style don’ts. These are some basic (and uncomfortable) mistakes that many men make. 

Warm & hot weather style mistakes guys make

1. Dressing in the wrong suit. Some suits are created for winter, while others are designed for cooler months. The summer suits are lighter-weight with more playful colors. Select a fabric that is not 100% linen, as it will wrinkle like crazy. Combine it with wool for a super perfect summer suit. Also, summer is ideal for wearing bright blues, tans, and khakis. I really like gray, which is also a perfect option.
2. Not sporting the right polo. Obviously, you will not wear a tie with a polo. But if you’re wearing the appropriate polo, you can take off your jacket or not wear one. My Collars and Co. polo is the perfect aesthetic for an elevated look. Also, do not wear a little boy polo or a polo that is striped horizontally, as it makes men appear short and fat. Opt for a cleaner look.
3. Wearing dark jeans. Go for lighter colors, lighter weights, and lighter washes. Jeans that have a stretch will feel like sweatpants. Summertime is perfect for wearing a lightweight cotton chino instead of jeans. They’re crazy, comfortable, and work amazingly. They come in a variety of options. To make your pants look fresh and stylish, cuff them to expose your ankle. 
4. Going for running shoes. Wearing running shoes with anything other than athletic wear looks stupid and like a dorky dad. Everyone needs a pair of lightweight, minimal white, black, brown, or tan sneakers. They are the perfect option that will pair with pretty much everything. You could also opt for retro-inspired sneakers. Slides and flip-flops, including Birkenstocks or Crocs, are only appropriate if your toes aren’t funky and nasty.
5. Choosing socks with shoes. Wear no socks or no-show socks with your loafers, driving moccasins, or sneakers in the summer.
6. Opting for big and baggy T-shirts. If you’re rocking a T-shirt, make sure it fits. You want to look as good as possible. Aesthetically, ensure it’s not too tight in the body, the sleeves are not too long, and expose your tricep. Remember that pockets are more casual, and v-necks make your face look more angular with white or shoulders. You can dress up a v-neck by tucking it into a pair of lightweight pants or jeans; you could also wear it underneath a suit or sports coat.
7. Selecting long shorts. A lot of guys wear the wrong fit of shorts. It’s all about the length. You must have at least an inch or two above your knees. The inseam depends upon your height. If you’re shorter, dude, wear a shorter inseam. Also, choose slimmer-fit shorts. You don’t want to wear anything too baggy, or your calves will look tiny. And pleats will make you look heavier. Choose lightweight, breathable, and stretchy fabric for your shorts. Remember that elastic waistbands are tougher to dress up than a button and fly with belt loops. Check out my outfit combinations.

I want to get a couple of things out of the way first. (a) Yes, I shave my legs. (b) I have small calves because I ruptured my Achilles tendon years ago, and no matter how many calf raises I do, my calves will not grow. (c) Also, check out the most amazing shorts on the market: Cuts Clothing. They also have sexy Henleys, polos, tees, hoodies, and joggers.

Avoid dressing in these types of men’s shorts

1. Big and baggy. This includes the leg and also the crotch. A super long rise will make your legs look extra short. Baggy shorts will also make small legs look like toothpicks. Upgrade the quality and style of shorts; they will fit better and look better. You can dress them up as well.
2. Pleated. Pleats will make you look heavier in the midsection. Choose instead a clean flat front that you can dress up or down.
3. Too long. The length can go anywhere from 5 to 11 inches and everything in between. One rule of thumb is if your shorts are passed the top of your kneecap, they’re too long. They must be at least three fingers above the top of your knee for the most aesthetic short length. If you’re 6 ft tall, 11-in shorts may land 3 inches above your knee which would be the appropriate break in your leg length. When shorts are super high, legs will look a lot longer. Wearing high shorts is a good thing if you’re a short guy. Check out my demonstration. Now, if you’re really tall and you have really thin legs, 5-in shorts will look a bit funny. Hike those shorts up a bit if you want to show off your quads. But it’s all personal preference.
4. Without underwear. Nobody wants to see your Big Al, so don’t wear mesh shorts without underwear. Also, if you’re not wearing underwear, everybody can tell if you are circumcised or hung.
5. Dressed up casual. Some shorts can be dressed up if they are the appropriate shorts. Check out my demonstration. Shorts with a drawstring and elastic waistband are not okay to be dressed up with a polo and loafers. But shorts with a flat front, zipper, button, and belt loops can be dressed up by tucking in and throwing on a belt. You could choose between minimal leather sneakers, flip-flops, or simple loafers.
6. With socks. Sure, you can wear a pair of Jordans with casual athletic shorts. You can also wear a taller pair of socks when working out. But wear no-show ankle socks if you’re wearing minimal white sneakers or trying to elevate your shorts’ aesthetic. Also, there is no such thing as shorts in business casual. Nobody needs to see your calves and socks when you are rocking shorts.
7. Not coordinated both ways. (a) When wearing bold shorts, do not pair them with a bold top. In other words, if you choose bright-colored or patterned shorts, go subtle or subdued with your top. (b) Ensure your outfit is coordinated top and bottom (color, pattern) while matching the level of casual vs. dressiness when pairing with shoes (flip-flops vs minimal leather sneakers vs loafers).

1. Hoodies that make men look like little boys include hoodies with patterns, graphics, writing on the sleeves, and a logo across the chest. These hoodies also include ones that are big and baggy with fabric that’s not sexy. I prefer Cuts Clothing with a clean and minimal design. The fabric is buttery soft, and the hoodies don’t have a kangaroo pouch in the front. Instead, small pockets are on the sides. The sleeves are not too big and baggy, and the hoodie is strategically snug across the chest.
2. Shirts that are too short. If you raise your arms and you expose your abdomen, it’s too short. Many times cheap clothing and low-quality items will shrink. Make sure you wear shirts that come down to about mid-crotch and still cover your belt if you reach up.
3. Stained or discolored armpits. White shirts are notorious for getting yellow and discolored armpits. If you wear white tee shirts often, switch to a deodorant that does not have aluminum which causes the yellowing. Also, go through your white shirts and inspect the pits once a year. If you find discoloration, toss and replenish.
4. Too tight shirts. Button-ups are a great casual outfit; however, a problem arises if the buttons are strained. If you see pulling or tugging around the buttons, it’s too tight. Don’t look like a sausage.
5. Performance shirts. This is the number one casual shirt that men should not wear because every single guy looks chubby in them. It’s inevitable because of how tight they are and because the fabric is shiny and reflective, showing lumps and bumps. You can also see manscape stubble through performance shirts because the hair will get hung up on the velcro-like fabric. Don’t look like a fat dad anymore. Make sure your shirt fits properly without being a sausage casing. Make sure it’s strategically snug through the chest, the arms and body are not too tight, and the bottom has a subtle slight curve. The long sleeve tees from Cuts are sick.
6. Patterned shirts. Personally, I’m not too fond of patterns on shirts. They make you look like a little boy. The only exception is dress shirts which a nice houndstooth or subtle pinstripe is perfect. Men will get a lot more versatility out of a solid option. Remember that anything horizontal will make men look wider and shorter, and vertical stripes make men look terrible.
7. Cut-off tank tops. These are the worst offenders, in my opinion. Cut-off tanks are even worse than wife beaters. Cut-off tanks make men look fat, expose boobie fat, and show love handles. When the sleeve is cut off, the shirt looks boxier, making the shoulders appear narrow. The only exception is wearing a wife beater as a base layer which looks fine underneath a flannel or a denim shirt. As a standalone, you look like a douche.
8. Vibrant, bright, and poppy shirts or any super cute graphic. These shirts do not look good on dudes. Go for softer colors that are a bit more muted. Men’s complexions look incredible, light, and fresh, and they get compliments with these hues. I get more compliments wearing colors than black, white, and gray. You have to step outside the box every now and then but don’t go too bright and poppy. If you’re a bigger dude, bright colors will make you look even larger.
9. Fuzz ball sweaters. Sweaters are incredible, and I’m a big fan of the lightweight Merino wool because it’s incredibly soft. However, they’ll get fuzzy with nasty balls when you wear them a lot. If you have fuzzy knots on your sweater, get a sweater shaver.

Always look amazing with one of these shirt choices

1. Perfectly tailored white dress shirt. No matter the age, this is a shirt that every guy needs. A crisp and clean white tailored dress shirt is the perfect blank canvas to wear underneath all of your suits. But you have to make sure it fits you flawlessly. I recommend having one made for you. The first time I slipped on a tailored dress shirt built for me, it was almost like a religious experience. I felt better and was more confident. Off-the-rack dress shirts are big and boxy, and due to today’s technology, you can build custom dress shirts at almost the same price as off-the-rack.
2. Lightweight v-neck sweater. Gray is one of my favorites, but navy blue is also incredibly versatile. The lightweight v-neck sweater looks great solo, but you can also layer it over a collared shirt. You can dress down a suit by wearing the v-neck sweater with the pants, but reciprocally, you can also dress up a pair of chinos or jeans. Keep in mind that you want to avoid a visible undershirt. I recommend a wife-beater tank top or a v-neck that is deep enough not to be seen.
3. Long sleeve polo-style sweater. This shirt is incredibly versatile, and you can dress it up or down. It’s the winter or fall version of the short sleeve polo shirt.
4. Three-button Henley. It is the most perfect casual shirt for men. It looks incredible paired with jeans, and you can dress it up, too, for a badass aesthetic. This shirt will make you look sexy and masculine. The placket will draw eyes down, making shoulders appear broader. It will simultaneously also make your face look more angular. I have many colors, but I love black or white solid. I recommend softer and muted tones instead of bright colors, as muted tones make you look brighter and more vibrant.
5. Well-fitting hoodie. All hoodies are not created equal; some are big, boxy, and baggy, while some have logos and writing on them and/or a kangaroo pouch. Upgrade your hoodie to a sleeker, more sexy version that will look much more stylish when you’re out in joggers running around or even at the gym. Cuts hoodies are flawless, with pockets on the side. The hyperloop fabric is incredibly comfortable and stretchy.
6. Casual button-up. I love the rich texture of a denim shirt or what is called chambray. A version with a pattern and texture creates an interesting look. If you’re wearing an unbuttoned shirt, you want to ensure that it hits the mid-crotch; you don’t want the shirt length hanging too low. Dress shirts are designed to be longer, so you can tuck them in and not have them tucked. Another casual button-up that I love is flannel shirts. They look amazing as a top layer or over a tee shirt, long-sleeve tee shirt, or a Henley. It adds versatility and layering to your wardrobe.

Then everybody started making fun of me — everyone from my wife to my buddy Adam to his wife Marley told me that the jacket was the ugliest ever. But then it gets worse. I see pictures of myself wearing it on Instagram. I was mortified! That said, I will go over a few jackets that sexy and stylish dudes like you would never wear.

Jackets you should never wear

1. Dad jackets. They are bland, boring, basic, and boxy. The lightweight bomber jacket is a much sexier and more stylish version of the dad jacket. It’s also affordable. This lightweight bomber adds an edge to any outfit but make sure it fits you.
2. Big, baggy, boxy bombers. You need to ensure that the jacket is tailored to your midsection. If not, you look heavier and rounder. Size down, which is valid for whenever you’re buying outerwear. Most people will find that the smaller outerwear looks better, but if you can barely zip it, size back up. Also, remember that jackets will stretch out and loosen a bit.
3. Fake leather. Do not wear fake leather jackets. There is no substitute for real leather as it lasts longer and looks more rugged once it’s broken in. Faux leather is not necessarily cheaper, either. Like their boots, Thursday Boots Company’s leather jackets get no better. I love their matte black racer jacket. It’s flawless.
4. Too youthful. Another wrong leather jacket is if you’re an older guy wearing a jacket that looks too young with quilting, zippers, and patches. Choose a simple, clean jacket that is appropriate for any age. The moto jacket by Thursday Boot Company is a classic leather jacket that is super soft and sexy. And so flexible you would literally don’t have to break it in. I recently got their roadster jacket in black coffee. It’s distressed and sick! It’s another classic design that will work well for all ages.
5. Matchy-matchy denim. A great rule of thumb for wearing a denim jacket is to choose Chino pants or a cotton option. If you wear your denim jacket with jeans, make sure it’s not too matchy-matchy. You need contrast to balance, never wear super light wash denim jackets, and choose mid-wash or dark wash. Also, make sure you’re denim jacket is not big or boxy.
6. Super long-sleeved. When I find a jacket that I like, I have the sleeves altered. Don’t try to hem the sleeve because it will throw off the proportions. Take your jacket to a tailor and have them lift the sleeve to keep the look of the sleeve the same but shorter.
7. Covered with lint, fuzz, or pet hair. Use a lint remover every day when wearing pea coats. Before leaving the house, go over your entire jacket to ensure you’re not covered with lint, hair, or fur. Pea coats are one of the greatest winter jacket options due to the collar, structure, and stance. Your shoulders will look broad, and your waist will look smaller. But make sure to size down. It needs to be snug in the body. Also, remember that it will loosen up as you wear it. Pea coats are appropriate for popping the collar. You’ll look sexier, cooler, and more stylish than other dudes.

Style MISTAKES that make skinny guys look SKINNIER!

1. If you’re a thinner dude, never wear a monochromatic dark outfit. Go with a contrast instead with a lighter top and darker below.
2. Skinny jeans, pants, and joggers that are too thin and tapered toward the ankle accentuate thinness. Go with more fabric, at least 1 inch on either side of your leg. Having pants taper too drastically down to the ankle is a mistake. Choose a straight-cut Chino or pant. It’s all about the visual line of your body.
3. Pointy shoes that are over dramatic will draw the eye down, making you look longer and thinner.
4. Shirts with patterns such as vertical stripes will draw the eye down, making you look thinner. Horizontal stripes will make you look wider but dorky. So go solid. With sleeve length, you don’t want it to be too long. Anything around your elbow will make your arms look super tiny.
5. Wear a watch to break the visual length of your forearm, making your forearm up your wider. But, if you wear a super oversized watch, your arm will look smaller. Go with a size 38, 39, or 40 max.
6. Boxers will make dudes look teeny-bitty weenie and dorky-skinny horrible. Boxers are big, baggy, and not sexy. Big Al and the Twins need support. Sheath underwear has a pouch that creates separation and makes Big Al look mas grande.
7. Dressing up can make thin dudes look bad when they do it wrong. Make sure to wear the right size suit. A too-big suit in the shoulders will make you look super tiny. Size down. Also, oversized lapels are a mistake. If you’re skinny, opt for a neutral or modest lapel. But don’t go for a super thin lapel either because it will make you look even thinner. Also, no large collars. The collar should be tailored if it is too big.
8. Oversized tee shirts make skinny guys look super tiny. But skinny guys also don’t want to wear something too tight like Under Armor. A shallow v-neck will make you look wider, but a crew neck is better. A deep v-neck is absolutely not. Also, a scoop neck is going to make you look smaller.
9. Big baggy shorts that are wide will make your legs, ankles, and calves look super skinny. Also, shorts that hit your knee (or longer) are a mistake. Get those shorts off your knee and ensure they’re fitted but not too tight. You don’t want bike shorts that make slim legs look even thinner.