Deal-breaker men’s accessories

1. Baseball hats. They aren’t inherently bad, but some kill a man’s style. If the hat looks rough, if it’s not coordinated with your outfit, and if you wear it like a punk, you will kill your style.
2. Earrings and rings. (a) Many people have a preconceived notion about t men who wear earrings. If you’re going to a job interview, getting a loan at the bank, or other important meetings, take them out. Also, a small subtle hoop is ideal, but you don’t want to go overboard. A simple stud is also great. Anytime you get big gauges, you look low-class and trashy. (b) Rings are amazing, but you should wear only one ring per hand maximum. If you go with a thumb ring, it’s a bit odd. An index finger makes you look a bit douchey. A pinky finger makes you look Italian. Multiple rings look a little low-class, in my opinion. Keep with a simple, clean, masculine ring.
3. Headphones. They are a modern accessory that a lot of men are using. If you want to engage with people and want people to talk to you, wearing these eliminates that. Nobody will want to come up to you and talk to you if you’re using them. To look a little more aesthetic, go with a pair of earbuds. If you’re using earbuds, make sure they’re not filthy.
4. Fragrance or cologne. Overpowering body spray, fragrance, or cologne is gross. If you’re using a body spray, upgrade to a proper fragrance. Fragrance is like an invisible accessory that can boost your confidence and get you compliments. It psychologically sends the message that you are sexy, and you will be perceived as more attractive when you smell amazing. However, if you’re wearing too much fragrance or it’s a cheap scent, your sexiness is reduced.
5. Tech watches. They are functional, but they are not stylish. They’re not mature-looking either. You will not get compliments on a tech watch. It’s not sexy. Every adult man should own a proper watch, which will take you to the next level. I love my new watches from Aura.
6. Sunglasses. These are potentially the greatest accessories out there. But they can make you look like a huge douche. Don’t ever wear them inside. Once you are three steps indoors, take them off. Also, if they’re big and oversized, you look slightly stupid. Choose one of the three classic styles: aviator, clubmaster, or wayfarer.  Proper sunglasses will help frame your face and make you look more dangerous, mysterious, and aesthetic. Wire frame glasses are also a no-go.
7. Ties and belts. (a) Skinny ties are out of style, and funky or zany tires are unattractive. Do not opt for a pre-tied bow tie, either. You’ll look like a loser. Know how to tire bow tie. Prefolded pocket squares will make your jacket look crappy. Know how to fold a pocket square, such as a clean, classic fold. Crazy and puffy folds look stupid. Do not buy a pocket square and tie combo. (b) Do not wear beat-up leather belts. Also, do not wear a brown leather belt with black leather shoes. Further, your brown belt should match your brown shoes. Your leathers must match and coordinate, and your belt should not have a big ugly belt buckle.
8. Phone. You can look trashy and low-class when you have zany cases or your screen is cracked and beat up. Yes, your phone is an accessory.
9. Backpacks. I’m not a fan of the big, bulky little boy backpacks. Opt for either a simple, minimal option that’s more mature and clean or a simple, clean, minimal leather briefcase
10. Necklaces and bracelets. Remember that less is more. Instead of wearing five necklaces, go with possibly two and something that is not big, like a medallion. The same goes for bracelets. Less is more. You look a bit foolish if you’re wearing a bunch of bracelets on both wrists. Wear simple and minimal bracelets, like nylon cord or beaded bracelets. A metal cuff is also amazing but shouldn’t be too big, ornate, bulky, or ostentatious.
11. Piercings. Other than your ears, other piercings are not stylish. The more you jam through your body, the less people want to hire you. You are limiting your potential opportunities.
12. Tattoos. Some guys look great with tattoos, like a sleeve or something sexy. But some tattoos will make you look like a huge toolbox. Never get a tattoo on your face or neck. Also, do not get tattoos on your hands because even though you may not care right now, you don’t know what you’re going to want or where you’ll be in a few years.

There’s no better store for a man who wants to dress refined and stylish than Suitsupply. It’s a style destination, suiting you from super casual to super elevated. Suitsupply is at the next level with cut, fabric, styling, and everything in between, such as shoes. You can visit Suitsupply in person or online. There’s also a hybrid option where you can start the process at home and then make an appointment to meet with your style advisor to get the perfect fit.

My warm weather suit

A spring/summer suit will have a lighter fabric construction. I prefer linen blended with silk or wool to add more structure and reduce the amount of wrinkling. Also, for this season, go with a lighter color, which is fresh and fun. You can elevate your aesthetic. The options can get overwhelming, but you can work with a style advisor to help you walk through the process. They can make recommendations.

• I opted for two buttons, a natural shoulder, peak lapel, full canvas, half-lined jacket, and monogrammed. I’m also picking buttons that are horn.
• For the pants, I am opting for a flat-front with tapered pants. Also, make sure your pants fit your hips tight because if they bellow out, you’ll have more of a feminine aesthetic, a bit more pear-shaped.

The finished product — wow!

Check out my finished suit. The fabric is a lightweight windowpane check. I paired it with a T-shirt and loafers. I could also swap those out for sneakers for a more casual look. I could also go the opposite and add a collared shirt and/or tie. The suit is very versatile, and the fabric is buttery smooth.

Look better by NOT wearing these T-shirts

1. Worn out bacon collars. Do not wear a T-shirt where the collar is all messed up.
2. Deep v-necks. A simple v-neck can make your shoulders appear broader and draw the eye down. But if the v-neck is super deep, you can look like a super douche. Also, never wear a deep v. It used to be stylish, but it’s not anymore. It shows a lot of man cleavage, which needs to be eliminated from your wardrobe. 
3. Too long sleeves. If sleeves come down too long, your arms will look skinny. You want to make your guns look jacked by exposing your triceps, which make up 2/3 the size of your arm. So, if your sleeve covers your entire arm, it will look teeny weenie. If your shirt sleeves are too long, cuff them.
4. Not the proper length. Proper T-shirt proportion is all about nailing the length. Whether it is too short or too long, test to see. First, if you lift your arms up and you can see your midsection, your shirt is too short. When too short, you look like you’re wearing a little boy’s T-shirt. If you’re standing straight and your T-shirt comes to the bottom of your crotch, the shirt is too long. When too long, your legs look super short.
   
5. Striped. T-shirts look best when solid because striped men look like little kids. They are less refined and can’t be dressed up. 
6. Oversized or too tight. These will make you look super skinny and won’t accentuate your positive attributes. Reciprocally, if you see a lot of pulling or whiskering or if you can see your gut, that’s bad. If you lift your arms up, you should not see your midsection.
7. Athletic. Sports T-shirts like Nike shirts are casual for working out but look too casual for dates or social events. Avoid sports shirts that are super shiny or tight. Also, avoid graphics and logos unless they’re very minimal. You should not have logos if you want to dress up a T-shirt.
8. Offensive. Even if you think it’s funny, you will look low-budget and low-class when someone sees an offensive graphic or word on your T-shirt. Don’t look like a loser.

What T-shirts you SHOULD wear

If you wear the appropriate T-shirt, you can wear it seamlessly with shorts, jeans, khakis, or even underneath the suit. Make sure the proportions fit you. ‘No pocket’ T-shirts will be more versatile. In my opinion, you should have a white and black T-shirt in your wardrobe. Black can be worn with many looks and is more dangerous and mysterious. White T-shirts can get discolored and yellow pits. Make sure that you inspect your white T-shirts. You can also opt for muted or some dude colors that are more aesthetic and timeless.

My favorite T-shirts come from Cuts, featuring the perfect fit and style, such as a flat front, crew neck, and split hem. Cuts T-shirts fit you strategically snugly in the chest and arms.

When you’re evolving your style, eliminate these ASAP

1. Business boy uniform. This is what I call khaki pants, button-up shirts, and ties being classified as ‘dressed up.’ As you evolve, you’ll have more events to dress up for, such as weddings, award ceremonies, and hot dates. By 25 you should be wearing your own suit.
2. Cheap, unfitted suit. Your suit can be inexpensive, but spend a little cash on tailoring it properly. It should not be big and roomy, the length of the sleeves should expose about a half to a full inch of the cuff when your arm is down, and the pants should be cropped or hemmed. The pants should also be tapered.
3. Long pants. If your pants puddle around your ankle, they’ll make you look short. If your pants are long in the crotch, your legs will look short. 
4. Wide and baggy pants. This will also make you look short.
5. Saggy pants. You don’t want your pants to be sagging off of your butt, either. Pull them up and wear a belt. Make sure your belt buckle is not flashy or big. Your belt also should not be a counterfeit designer belt. Choose something like an Anson Belt.
6. Too many rings. You look stupid if you have more than one ring on your hand.
7. Apple watches. Sure, they’re functional, but they’re not grown up. Upgrade your watch. There are a lot of fantastic badass watches under $100.
8. Fake leather jackets. Some jackets are more timeless and classic than others. Opt for a bomber jacket with a simple zip-up and collar. You could also go for a racer jacket without a collar that is age-appropriate for anyone. Biker jackets with all the zippers are definitely more stylized, and if you’re a bit older, in your 40s, this may look funky.
9. Fake leather shoes. These look funky, and you should never wear them. Leather is higher quality, not much more expensive, will last you longer, and will look better. You’ll be more confident wearing it. Spend the money and upgrade.
10. Beat up belts. Too many belts have holes, dings, and lines. Upgrade your belt to an Anson Belt with a track system. It’s clean and sexy.
11. Unmatched belts. Match leathers to look stylish. You can add a pop of color and express yourself stylistically.
12. Dumb sunglasses. When you’re young and stupid, you may be wearing stupid sunglasses. Upgrade your eyewear because it’s a fantastic accessory. Look for styles such as the Wayfarer, Aviator, or Clubmaster. These styles are clean, classic, and mature.
13. Big, bulky boots. Don’t even think about it.
14. Running shoes. Only wear them when you’re running.
15. Dirty shoes. Any dirty shoes are horrible and are not acceptable.
16. Crotch-covering shirts. One of the big style mistakes guys make with button-ups is wearing them untucked. Guys think they can wear an untucked dress shirt when they can’t. Button-up casual shirts are designed to be worn untucked specifically. If your shirt covers your crotch, you will look super short.
17. Graphic t-shirts. An occasional graphic t-shirt is fine, but one that is outlandish or offensive is not cute.
18. Big-brimmed hats. Be careful with this choice.
19. Baseball hats. When you wear them backward, you look youthful. If you wear them to the side, you look stupid. Wearing a baseball hat to the front is fine, but don’t tuck your ears in. That’s a big, huge no. I also make sure your baseball hat fits you correctly.
20. Little boy backpacks. Upgrade your bag when you’re 25 years old and not living at your mom’s house. Elevate your aesthetic to a more refined look.
21. Tight t-shirts. No, you don’t look jacked. You look like a sausage and are trying too hard.
22. T-shirt with too long sleeves. If your t-shirt covers your entire arm, it will look smaller. Lift up those sleeves to make your arms look a lot bigger.
23. Oversized t-shirts. This trend looks okay on younger dudes trying to express themselves and keep up with trends, but as a grown-ass man, wear a t-shirt that fits your body.
24. Pit stains. If you have pit stains on your white shirts, toss them.
25. Items you don’t love. Go through your wardrobe and toss or donate anything that you don’t enjoy wearing. Don’t keep it just because you have it. Make sure what you have in your wardrobe fits your body and makes you feel sexy and confident.

1. Black suits — black suits are never an option unless you’re attending a funeral. Otherwise, black is horrible. Go for charcoal gray or navy blue instead.
2. Dirty shoes — nasty and scuffed shoes are a deal breaker. Everyone notices shoes, so you don’t want to be rocking dirty kicks.
3. Lame glasses — glasses are a potential opportunity, but they can turn into a liability for some guys. You want frames that add interest, have structure and detail, and are an accessory for your face. They can balance your face and make you look more attractive and interesting. Don’t rock Uncle Barry’s glasses!
4. Lint and pet fur — use a lint roller, gentlemen! Also, invest in a pill ball shaver on Amazon to rid yourself of fabric balls.
5. Oversized sweaters — you need to wear clothing that fits to look your best. Opt for a v-neck to make your face look more angular, and your shoulders appear wider.
6. Little boy polo shirts — don’t get caught in a little boy polo or dorky dad polo. Collars and Co. has perfected the polo with their collars and fabric.
7. Fake leather jackets — invest in a higher quality leather jacket so you don’t look low-budget in a fake. Bombers are an incredible jacket that every single dude needs.
8. Wife beaters — the wife beater is one of the most douchy shirts a dude can rock solo. Opt for a more refined tank from H&M that looks much more acceptable and put together.
9. Jammed pockets — a bunch of crap in your pockets distort the line of your pants and package.
10. These jeans — dad jeans, distressed, and tight jeans are all a big ‘no.’
11. Big, thick belts — big belts and belt buckles are out of style. But make sure, if you’re wearing a belt, that it matches and coordinates with your shoes in leather and finish. Fabric belts are a great option if going casual, and they don’t need to match your shoes, but they need to coordinate.
12. Offensive tee shirts — don’t wear stupid graphic tee shirts. A clean, classic tee is optimal, whether a crew or v-neck. You can use these to layer with as well. Make sure they fit, and make sure you don’t cover your triceps.

1. Brown leather loafers. A nice pair of leather loafers work incredibly well with jeans, slacks, suits, and shorts. Brown is better than black because it’s richer and adds interest, depth, and dimension to your wardrobe. Most guys stick to black, but brown is a better option.
2. Proper watch. Young dudes are wearing technologically advanced watches like Apple. They’re functional, but wear a proper watch if you want to look better. It doesn’t have to be expensive, but it should be something you wind, or it has a band you love. When you look down at your wrist, you will automatically feel incredible. It’s also a conversation piece.
3. Proper jacket. Whether or not it’s a pea coat or some type of driving jacket, a proper jacket will upgrade your wardrobe. Younger dudes are wearing more casual puffer jackets. The jacket I’m talking about can be dressed down or up and looks terrific with jeans, boots, slacks, or chinos.
4. Perfect pair of denim. Upgrade your denim because if you’re wearing a pair that’s too baggy, tight, slim, distressed, or otherwise, you’re not looking as good as possible. Upgrade your denim to a straight or slim fit that’s a solid wash and not overly distressed. You will look fantastic, and they will pair perfectly with pretty much everything. A dark wash pair of denim that fits flawlessly is one of the most perfect pants you can own.
5. Slim wallet. Your proportions will be jacked up if you’re rocking a big monster wallet. Your pants will not look as good, and it’s unhealthy for your hips because you’re sitting on that bad boy. Look for something slim, like a cardholder or a front-pocket wallet. Just carry a few cards; you don’t need all the membership cards and receipts.
6. Anson Belt. Your belt game is probably whacked out if you’re not rocking an Anson Belt. The standard belt has holes, cracks, and scars and can look worn out quickly. Instead, an Anson belt has micro-adjustments that keep your belt looking clean. The belts are interchangeable with different buckles.
7. Tailored clothes. (a) A white dress shirt. You won’t wear it all the time, but when you do, you look like a sex machine. The internet has changed the game for having tailored clothing. You can get custom-tailored shirts on the internet for 40 bucks. There’s nothing like slipping on a tailored shirt that makes you feel amazing and look incredible. (b) A tailored suit will automatically make you feel fabulous. Most men wear baggy and boxy suits- they’re just too big, making them look like a little boy. Spend time and money to have a suit properly tailored, which will make the difference between you looking fabulous and not.
8. Upgraded sunglasses. Sunglasses are a fantastic accessory but can look cheap, funny, or youthful. Invest in classic styles like Wayfair, aviator, and Clubmaster; you will automatically feel sexier and more mysterious.
9. Upgraded sneakers. You will not look as elevated if you wear something super casual or trendy — you will look more youthful and immature. Wear a minimal leather sneaker to elevate your wardrobe. When you throw on a pair of these, you look more mature and sexy.
10. Proper polo shirt. Polos are one of those shirts where you can look like a little boy or a dork if you wear them wrong. You can go from dork to sexy by making sure not to wear patterns and stripes. Also, do not have a floppy, whacked-out collar. Standard polos also shrink. So instead, invest in a higher quality polo. The perfect color is black or navy. But anything with patterns, graphics, or logos will make you look youthful. Besides, solids are more versatile and will last longer.

All pants are not created equal. Some are created super tight, some too big and baggy, and some too casual. Make sure you’re wearing pants that make you look sexy. Always choose sexy!

Don’t kill your style with FUGLY pants!

1. Puddling. Nothing will make you more dumpy, frumpy, and more looking like a math teacher than wearing big baggy pants. To maximize your aesthetic, you want pants the proper length. If wearing slacks, a little break is fine. But if you’re wearing jeans, a little stack is OK. But if you’re wearing something big and baggy (like drooping ball skin around your shoes), you must tighten it up. Either get them hemmed & tapered or size down. You may not be as tall as you think you are.
2. Extra room. If you have a lot of fabric in the crotch, it’ll make your legs look super short and throw off your proportions. If you have a lot of extra room in your legs, you need to tighten it up.
3. Too tight. Your jeans are too tight if you can tell that you’re circumcised. Your jeans are too tight if you can see your hamstring glute transition. You want to be able to pinch about an inch on either side of your thigh when you’re standing.
4. Overly distressed. If you have a bunch of tearing or ripping and a lot of distressing, such as artificial discoloration, you will look stupid. Distressed jeans were popular about eight years ago, but not anymore. You want to ensure pants are tailored, fit properly, and are not overly beaten up or distressed.
5. Ath-loser-wear – you look like a loser if you’re wearing big, baggy, gigantic workout pants or janky-ass joggers. You need to upgrade the quality and style of your casual wardrobe. Check out Cuts Clothing. You can dress their joggers up or down. Be sure to check out my examples.
6. Flaring pockets. When pockets are on the sides of the pants, flaring can happen (unlike denim with front pockets). The pockets will pop out if pants with side pockets are too small for your package and booty. Typically, you can size up in the waist for extra room. The downside to sizing up is that the pants will also be oversized in other areas. So, have them tailored — both shortened and tapered. One alteration that guys neglect to think about is tapering. They’ll have their pants shortened but not tapered, making them look too wide at the ankle.
7. Cuffed & pleated. Cuffs typically look good on 6’2 models. If you’re not, you’ll look shorter. Anything that breaks that visual line from your shoulders to your ankle must be eliminated. Cuffs are one of those details that will break the visual line. Typically, when you see cuffed pants, you’ll also see pleats. Pleats will make you look absolutely horrible. The standard dude does not look good in pleats because they’re designed to be pulled up to the navel for pleats to lay flat. Most dudes wear their pants lower, which opens the pleats, making them look pear-shaped. They’ll have a lot of extra fabric around the midsection, making them look soft and doughy. This is not sexy.

Boots are the sexiest most rugged and unbelievably manly shoes that a guy can wear. The trick is knowing how to combine wearing boots properly because you can take a potential boot opportunity and turn it into a liability by wearing the wrong ones. All the boots that I wear are from Thursday Boots. Thursday Boots are an investment in comfort & confidence. Get yourself a great pair of boots with free shipping & returns today!

Boots bearing rules

Don’t wear cheap boots. If it’s a moral thing, like you’re vegan, that’s fine. But if you want to pinch a penny, don’t do it. Cheap book boots look cheap and fall apart quickly. Spend just a little bit more money and get real leather. They will look amazing!

Do not wear dressy boots with casual jeans. Some boots are casual but some are a little more elevated and aesthetic. Casual boots go with casual jeans. Never wear dressy boots with casual jeans. When wearing dressy boots, some are created to be more casual than others.

Choose brown when dressing up a pair of boots. Brown is more fashion-forward. Guys are comfortable with black because it matches everything. Brown can too, and it adds another level of richness and texture to an outfit. Check out my examples. You can get multiple boots so you can have both colors.

Change the aesthetic of your outfit by switching your boots. Go from something dark and mysterious to more surprising and daring by switching from a black boot to a gray suede boot.

You can dress down a dressy boots but you can’t dress up a casual boot. Dressy boots vs casual boots:

• Suede is casual; same with matte leather.
• Stitches around the toe are casual.
• Shinier is dressier.
• Rubber soles and ones that stick out further than the upper or the leather are casual.
• Laces are more casual as well.
• Dressy is cleaner.
• Brogues laced up can be versatile.
• The toe is another indicator: tapered is dressier.
• The clean, low profile is dressier.

Styles of sweaters

Cardigan, pullovers (mock, crew, v-necks, quarter zip, turtleneck), and full zips.

Fabrics

Cotton, cable knit, and Merino wool (best for dressing up). Never wear a fuzzy or balled sweater. Shave it off. Also, use a lint roller for crap stuck to your sweater.

Fit

Oversized is a trend, but you should have it fit you properly; if not, it will look too casual.

Collar

V-neck is most practical for dressing up. Sure, you can dress up a crew, but v-necks are a better (and sexier) choice. 

Underneath

Opt for a rigid collar. Standard polo collars look messy and are too casual. 

‘Dress-up your sweater’ outfits

• Lightweight turtleneck with a suit auto elevates your aesthetic
• Cable knit sweater + loafers
• Cardigan with loafers in a monochromatic look
• A v-neck sweater makes a dressy casual date option

As a general rule, subtle and subdued jewelry is better. If you want to show off a little flash and bling it up, you can, but understand that you must ensure the entire package matches. Don’t look like a math teacher and then have some big blinged-out cross around your neck. That will look silly. Jewelry is fantastic if you rock it properly. You have to make sure your aesthetic works and matches and find items that resonate with you. Invest in higher quality items such as a nicer watch or ring.

Look your best when accessorizing with jewelry

1. Don’t overdo it. You can always go right with a watch, but never wear an Apple watch. Watches come in a variety of price levels, so don’t overpay. Only buy something within your budget. Work toward that goal if you aspire for a Rolex or comparable piece. But also understand there are excellent options at lower prices that you will love rather than spending thousands.
2. Have a story. Wearing jewelry with a story and a meaning behind it, whether it’s an heirloom, custom piece, or a piece you dreamed of, makes it more special.
3. Don’t wear cheap. Opt for higher-quality jewelry, as lower-priced jewelry is usually plated in gold, which the plating will rub off. Platinum or sterling silver will maintain its luster and look better over time. Sure, they may get a bit of scratching or patina, but you will wear it proudly.
4. Only four metal choices. Do not wear metal other than gold, silver, platinum, or stainless steel. Anything plated, wood, rubber, leather, or plastic will not hold up and not look that great. Shells, leather, straps, and beads will look more youthful and cheaper.
5. Match metals. I personally believe in matching metals. All of my pieces are rose gold. However, I have one caveat. Two-tone watches are gorgeous and a way to work the system. For instance, if you wear a gold wedding band, wearing a two-tone watch would allow you to wear silver on the other hand.
6. Invest time & thought. Invest time, energy, and thought into your jewelry and accessories. This means they will mean a lot more to you and last longer.
7. The number matters. (a) One ring on each hand. Wearing one ring on each hand is ideal. As far as what finger is appropriate, the ring finger is fantastic. Index fingers are fine, and thumb rings can work. Even a pink can sometimes look amazing. But, in my opinion, go with the standard ring finger. (b) Minimal bracelets are best. A simple, single bracelet or cuff looks incredible. What doesn’t look incredible is a bunch of bracelets, which can also scratch your watch. I suggest wearing a watch on one wrist and a bracelet on the other.
8. Clean & classic necklaces. Wearing one, possibly two chains, is optimal; if you want to wear something simple, clean, and classic, that’s the best. Blingy and more prominent necklaces are gaudy and audacious. There’s definitely a line that you’re crossing.
9. To rock earrings or not? If you’re going to rock earrings, rock them. But take them out if you’re going into a business meeting or asking for money. Earrings have a negative connotation, and often, people form opinions of men with earrings, just like visible tattoos.
10. Clothing accessories need to match. Bars, cufflinks, and other clothing accessories must match, as you can overdo it if you wear too many. You should avoid wearing a tie bar and a tie clip, lapel pin, and cufflinks altogether, as you will look overboard. Choose either a tie bar or a tie clip. I also recommend investing in a great (not cheap or ostentatious) pair of cufflinks. Again, less is more. Every guy should have a French cuff or a cuff that allows you to wear cufflinks because it’s a more elevated aesthetic and looks great.

Incredible jewelry resource

An incredible resource for jewelry that I have talked about before is JamesAllen.com. It’s the only place where I buy my wife’s diamond jewelry because they have a superior product for a fantastic price. The holidays are right around the corner, and JamesAllen.com has a vast selection of classics, ranging from diamond stud earrings to tennis bracelets to necklaces. And you can shop based on your budget and type of diamond.

JamesAllen.com also has a men’s collection of rings, chains, pendants, and other high-quality jewelry. It’s better to invest in one or two signature pieces that are high quality that you will love, and that will last for years as opposed to buying a ton of crap that you will never wear. Plus, Jamesallen.com offers a lifetime warranty.

Young guys’ biggest complaints are that they aren’t respected, and a quick solution is to upgrade and elevate their style and aesthetic. Wear clothing that fits, get rid of logos and graphics, and wear clothing that’s timeless and elegant. It doesn’t matter how young you are; you will look better than your peers. On the flip side, if you’re an older dude ready to embrace a better aesthetic, take some chances and wear clothing that fits you, play around with colors, and find clothing that makes you feel like the man.

How to look your best AT ANY AGE!

Overdress. It doesn’t matter if you’re 14 or 44; get into the habit of always dressing above the level of dress in the room. If you do, you will always look appropriate and stylish. One aspect that makes young men look immature is being underdressed, which a simple solution is being overdressed. You’ll look better than everybody else in the room.

Know where you’re shopping. Don’t wear clothing that is made for the younger generation. Certain stores are designed specifically for teens and young 20-year-olds. Some stores skew older, like Brooks Brothers, which is a great store but will look more old-money aesthetic that lends itself to an older generation.

Don’t plaster brands and logos. One of the mistakes that many younger guys make is thinking flashy logos are stylish. Actually, they make men look youthful and young. Conversely, if an older guy wears the same thing, it will make him look ridiculous.

Avoid wearing overly-distressed anything. Overly distressed or even overly stylized will make you look youthful. And if you’re an older gentleman, but bling on your denim looks stupid. If you’re wearing super tight jeans, you also look silly. But lots of holes or distressed anything will make you look foolish.

Consider trends carefully. Younger guys can pull off wearing trendy items but understand that trends will come and go quickly. When older gentlemen between 30 and 50 go trendy, they look like they’re trying too hard. If you’re more mature, avoid trends and go to more classic styles.

Understand different levels of casual dress. You can dress as an older gentleman and look fantastic, timeless, and sexy wearing a simple hoodie and joggers. But there’s a difference between that and even more casual options that a younger guy could get away with wearing, such as an everyday hoodie and sweatpants. Super casual clothing looks better on younger men, but that doesn’t mean younger men wouldn’t look better and more mature in more refined, elevated-quality casual clothing.

Do not wear striped shirts. More specifically, do not wear striped Polo shirts. Polo shirts can make a lot of guys look ridiculous, even young dudes. A worn-out Polo especially looks stupid. Elevate and upgrade your Polo with Collar and Co. polos, designed to look like dress shirts. They solve the problem with Polo collars, as theirs are rigid and not floppy. This makes them more dressy and sexy — perfect for layering. Check out Collars & Co. and use code ALPHAM for a special limited-time discount on your order!

Avoid big and baggy clothing. Big and baggy clothing doesn’t look great on anybody. It’s a current trend more suited toward the younger demographic. First, baggy clothing makes everyone look short. Also, big and baggy clothing is sloppy. The general rule is always to dress in clothing that fits your body, which goes for shirts, pants, and outerwear.

Tailored looks amazing. An item will look fantastic regardless of age if it is tailored correctly. Tailoring is one of the quickest ways to make yourself look badass. A cheap suit looks crunchy, the shoulders are big & bulky, the lapels are super thin, and the pants are pulling, bagging, and bunching at the ankle. When tailoring a suit, address the jacket as well as the pants. Make sure the pants get tapered down by the ankle.

Too tight is too much. Regardless of age, you must ensure your pants are not too tight. Also, make sure your pants don’t bunch at the pockets and pull with a lot of whispering. Tightness in the crotch indicates that the pants are too tight and need to be sized up.

Avoid too many accessories. Whether young or old, you look stupid with too many accessories. Most older dudes cannot pull off earrings. Chains and necklaces should be limited to one or two, which also applies to bracelets. And wear one ring, maybe two. Last, Apple watches are a big thumbs down.

Consider your shoes. Younger guys look amazing in more stylized shoes because they’re more trendy. Conversely, older dudes wearing running shoes with anything other than athletic gear look horrible. Upgrade the quality of your sneakers to a bit more stylized and avoid big bulky trends that look bad on everybody. Ensure the toe box is natural and the shoe has a simple, clean aesthetic.

When I got home, my wife wanted to see all my purchased clothes. I let her know that I didn’t buy anything, and she was curious as to why. I explained that I couldn’t find any pants off the rack that fit because of my height. And she asked why I didn’t just go to the website I used to go to to buy stuff for shorter men. I responded, asking about Peter Manning. She confirmed who she was referring to. So I visited PeterManning.com and dropped $2,500, which got me thinking about today’s video.

The majority of men weren’t born with off-the-rack body types. Some body types look great in everything, but the reality is that most of us dudes don’t. Let’s talk about different body types. So, I want to review how to dress appropriately for your body type and shape. We’ll review some general dressing rolls that will make you look better regardless of your body shape or type. We’ll also dig deeper into specific issues that certain body types have and how to fix them.

Specific Body Types

Skinny dudes.

• Avoid clothing that’s too tight, which will make you look thinner.
• Also, avoid dark, monochromatic looks because dark colors make thin men look smaller. Go for lighter colors, grays, and brighter colors like greens and pinks to appear larger. I recommend lighter shades such as khaki or gray and light denim for pants.
• Instead of going for a skinny fit, go for more of a straight leg. You will look even thinner if you’re skinny and wearing baggy clothing.
• Layering is a fantastic way for a skinny guy to dress. Build up your upper chest by wearing an undershirt or t-shirt, a sweater, and maybe a jacket or bomber.
• Double breast pockets will add both to your chest as well.
• Last, collars can add both to your traps.

Huskier dude.

• Dark colors will make you look smaller, which is fantastic.
• And regarding layering, a dark overshirt will make you look smaller when combined with white, giving a slimming and muscular illusion. Combine that with a pair of dark denim that will elongate you and make you look leaner and smaller. The cool thing about an overshirt is that you have a pocket, so if you have man boobs, it’s a great way to minimize that.
• If you’re a bit rounder and huskier, wearing a dark shirt, dark pants, and dark jacket is suggested.
• Ensure the fit is proper, whether it’s your shirt or outerwear. Your shirt shouldn’t come down long to make your legs appear shorter and your upper body bigger. You want to create visual length and elongate. Looking taller will make you look cleaner.
• When you’re heavier, you want to avoid too long pants and puddling at the ankle. It’ll make you look shorter and stockier.
• Make sure pants are tapered without being overly tight if you’re a big dude.
• Look for clothing that fits strategically snug in the chest and arms but is not tight in the body. You may need to size up and then have the shirt tailored. Companies like DXL are great for tall and big guys, whether or not you’re heavy. They sell longer pants and larger sizes. The downside to DXL is the shirts will be super long. The good news is that you can find pants that will fit.
• Now, if you have big thighs or a big butt, you can balance that with color contrast, such as a light shirt up top to make you look bigger on top, and then combine that with medium to dark wash denim down below.

Short dudes.

• For a short person, long shirts and jackets that come down too long against the legs will make them look even shorter. You want to create visual length and elongate.
• A short guy doesn’t want puddling at the ankle, either.

General dressing tips

• Baggy clothing only looks good on some people because it will make you look short and heavy.
• Horizontal stripes don’t look good on anybody but super skinny tall dudes. Horizontal stripes will make you look whiter and shorter. But if you’re heavy, opt for vertical stripes to accentuate your height. White or vertical stripes will add visual length and dimension for a short guy to make you appear smaller and taller.
• Dark colors look great on most people. I recommend dark gray, charcoal, and navy blue suit shades. This is also a great option if you’re a thin dude wearing a lighter gray or a darker blue. Black suits don’t look good on anybody. They really shouldn’t be worn except for funerals or possibly if you’re wearing a tuxedo.
• Tailoring is the missing link to looking fantastic. Many guys don’t realize that when having pants altered, they should have them tapered at the ankle along with hemming them. It’s a subtle modification that will make you look amazing. You will look thinner and sexier as well as more muscular, regardless of your height.
• Learn your body and understand that all clothing was not created equal. Realize what stores work for you and what cuts look best on you. The beautiful thing is when it comes to denim, there are many options. You can find skinny, slim, standard, athletic, relaxed. It’s about finding the best pair of denim for you that fits perfectly. It shouldn’t be too tight or too big. It should never be hanging down on your ass. The cool thing is they now make other pants with different cuts, like khakis, chinos, and corduroys.
• We all, unfortunately, don’t have off-the-rack bodies, but I usually recommend slim fit versions because slim fit doesn’t mean super tight; it just means more tailored in the midsection of the shirt, reducing the amount of fabric that will make you look better.
• Pay attention to proportions. If you’re a short dude, I know the pain and suffering. Ultimately, embarrassment is associated with going into a store and finding clothes off the rack. Finding a place like Peter Manning is a game-changer for me: use code alpha2023 for 20% OFF your entire order (expires 12.30.23)

So this got me thinking of it more about sexy date outfit ideas that are guaranteed to drive spicy señoritos loco. I want you to take these outfits as inspiration and modify them to make them your own. Check out the video for more details and inspiration.

The foundations for IRRESISTIBLE date style

1. Dark Monochromatic. Joggers, full zip up, mock neck shirt, and black minimal leather sneakers.
2. Refined Rugged. Suede Chelsea boots, medium wash denim, white henley, and navy blue pea coat.
3. Denim. Jeans, minimal sneakers, black t-shirt, bomber jacket. You can change it up with Chelsea boots, a henley, a light sweater, or a different jacket
4. Cardigan. Cardigan with a white t-shirt, green cotton pants cuffed, and sneakers.
5. Mix and Match. Pants from a suit, navy v-neck sweater, and Oxford shoes.

Stop wearing these types of shirts

1. Striped. Stripes are pretty bad as a general rule., especially horizontal stripes. Horizontal stripes will make you look lighter and like a little boy. As you mature, go for more solid and some dude. You will look more refined and sexy.
2. Too tight. Tight shirts and button-ups are not good. If you sit down and your buttons look ready to pop, you need to size up.
3. Pit stains. If your white shirts have pit stains, throw them out. You can solve this problem by using an antiperspirant without aluminum.
4. Big collars. Never wear a button-up shirt that has an oversized collar. It may be more comfortable, but it will look too big.
5. Oversized. (a) you can get away with oversized trends when you’re younger. It looks more appropriate. But you should avoid it when you’re a grown-ass man because it’ll make you look sloppy. (b) Also, make sure your sleeves aren’t too long. You need to ensure your arms look muscular and expose a little tricep. If you’re covering them up by wearing an oversized sleeve, your arms will look super skinny.
6. Tank tops and wife beaters. As a general rule, adult men look a bit stupid wearing tank tops and wife-beaters. You’ll look like a guido.
7. Collars that have quit. Have a collar that is up. Collars & Co polos kick the crap out of standard polos, which have floppy collars. You want an elevated polo, like these from Collars & Co.
8. Sweaters with balls & fur. Never wear a sweater that has a lot of sweater fuzz. Invest in a shaver from Amazon, which is super affordable. And while you’re at it, grab a lint roller for fur and hair removal.
9. Offensive t-shirts or sweatshirts. You may think it’s funny, but it’s not funny. Do not wear anything defensive.
10. Youthful hoodies. Hoodies can make you look super childish and immature. Make sure it’s not gigantic. Opt for a hoodie that’s more stylized. Also, graphics on the sleeves or across the chest will make you look youthful.
11. Overly buttoned. You need to unbutton two buttons minimum. You can unbutton three buttons at the maximum and ensure you do not have an undershirt visible.
12. Sloppy sleeve rolls. When wearing a button-up, ensure your rolls are clean instead of big and floppy. You want to make your forearm look more prominent and sexier because women dig a dude’s forearm.
13. Matching jeans perfectly.
14. Past your crotch. If the shirt comes past your crotch, it’s too long. You want to make sure that it is halfway between the bottom part of your crotch and your button.
15. Funny holiday shirts. If you wear it to a party, that’s fine. But opting to wear it because you think it will be fun and zany is not a good idea.

1. Leather jackets. Controversy surrounds whether or not a man should wear leather jackets over the age of 30. I say F them. They have no idea what they’re talking about if you wear a leather jacket and follow the rules. It has to be real leather, it can’t be big and baggy, and it must coordinate with your style. I demonstrate some timeless jackets that work across all ages and demographics.
2. Little boy baseball hats. They make you look beautiful and immature.
3. Cheap sunglasses. These make you look cheap and terrible.
4. Stinky body spray. This also includes super popular fragrances because you will smell like her ex-boyfriend, whom she does not want to be with.
5. Backpacks. These make you look really immature.
6. Earrings and over-accessorization. There’s a fine line between looking stylish and cool and overdoing it. Wear a badass ring or chain, but you don’t want to wear 16 bracelets. Yes, a watch is great, but not an Apple watch.
7. Certain shoes. Running shoes should be reserved only for running. Tom’s and boat shoes are also a no. Instead, opt for badass matte black boots like the ones I demonstrate in the video. Boots are the great equalizer in men’s sexy footwear. They also give you a bit of height and make you look like a badass. I love Chelsea boots because they’re clean with no shoelaces to get hung up on your pants. You can add richness and texture to your outfit by wearing a pair of suede Chelsea boots. Chukkas are also another must-have that can be paired with jeans or chinos. One of the most beautiful pairs of boots that I own are wing tip rogue dress boots; I get so many compliments from them.
8. Bad underwear. These are negative if you’re rocking a pair of little boy boxers or tighty whities. You need to make sure your underwear is smooth and sexy.
9. Deep v-necks. Showing a little man cleavage is okay by just unbuttoning your shirt to show it off, but not a deep v.
10. Wife beaters. Instead of wearing a wife beater, up for a simple white tank that is not too tight and it’s a bit looser. It is more appropriate than a wife beater.
11. Boxy, baggie suits. A suit will give you the opportunity to look unbelievable, but unfortunately, too many guys walk into a store and take one off the rack. It’s too baggy and boxy, making them look dumpy and dorky like a dad. You don’t need to spend much, but ensure your suit is tailored and tapered to your body.
12. Dad jeans. You need to make sure your jeans fit you properly without being too tight or too loose, falling off your ass.
13. Open-toed shoes with nasty toes and nails. Ensure your feet are cared for, and do not wear flip-flops or sandals with socks.
14. Dorky polos.
15. Too many patterns. Make sure the patterns are subdued and you’re not wearing multiple patterns.
16. Sloppy slob. She does not want to walk into a room with you looking like a slob. She wants you to dress with intention and style because she wants to be proud of you. She spends a lot of time and energy making herself beautiful and sexy, and you need to do the same for her.

Sexy dressing rules

• Fit. Fit is the most important aspect of dressing well. If your clothes are too baggy, boxy, and not highlighting your positive attributes, you won’t look sexy. You’ll look frumpy.
• Color. Wearing subdued and darker colors is sexier and more mysterious. Wear muted colors. Quiet luxury refers to a more casual and luxurious look and feel that doesn’t include bright colors and patterns.
• No patterns. Do not wear patterns with casual clothing, but patterns make a suit look better. Bolt patterns are the sexiest options for suiting. Every guy looks good in a well-tailored suit, but what will set a man apart from others is bold suit patterns. Make sure that your shirt and other accessories are subdued and minimal, however.
• Skin exposure. A man who unbuttons his shirt three buttons down is considered more attractive and sexy. If you want to rock this look, make sure your manscaping game is strong.
• Forearms. Expose them because women find them the sexiest feature.

Clothes & accessories women find most attractive

• Proper fitting jeans. You don’t want super tight jeans that make your moose knuckle apparent. And women don’t want to see wedgies. Jeans that are hanging off your ass are bad as well. You need a perfect-fitting pair of jeans that are not too tight in the leg and have the proper length. Pair them with simple boots and a perfect white Henley.
• Outerwear. A lot of guys get this piece wrong. It’s not just a jacket. Every sexy dude needs to have a navy pea coat. Another incredibly sexy jacket is a bomber. A leather jacket is one of the sexiest jackets that a dude can wear, but you have to ensure it’s age-appropriate.
• Shoes. Shoes are an easy way to elevate the aesthetic of your look and a way to get attention from spicy ass senoritas. Women find suede Chukkas attractive as they add richness and texture. Leather sneakers and sexy stylish kicks are also footwear that women find irresistibly sexy.
• Henleys. Henley shirts are sexiness personified and look amazing on men. If you have a nice physique, they look extra sexy.
• Perfect fitting T-shirts. When you combine a perfect-fitting T-shirt with jeans, you have a combination that you can’t lose.
• Accessories. Accessories can make or break an outfit. An Apple watch will break an outfit, for example. Opt for a cool ring or a necklace. Women do not typically find men with earrings super attractive, but glasses are a great way to elevate your aesthetic.
• Boxer briefs. These are sexy, but not all underwear was created equal. You don’t want to wear underwear that makes you look like a little boy or like you have super skinny legs. Underwear with images like flamingos is not sexy. Neither are tighty whities.
• Fragrance. When you smell amazing, you are ten times more attractive and sexy.

Don’t do these to Big Al & the Twins!

1. Not ejaculating 21x a month. Data from research shows that if you’re not reaching that 21 times a month, you’re increasing your risk of prostate cancer and fertility reduction.
2. Being overweight. For every 20 pounds, you’re decreasing your fertility by 10%.
3. Smoking. Research shows that if you smoke once a week, you’re fertility and sperm count will drop by 29%.
4. Laptop on lap. If you sit with your laptop directly on your junk, your sperm will be destroyed by the heat and radiation. Also, don’t keep your phone in your front pocket beside your balls. This can reduce fertility and sperm count.
5. Plastics and Parabens. (a) BPA is destroying the endocrine systems, testosterone levels, sperm counts, and fertility. (b) Parabens, found in shampoos, styling products, body washes, and more, are also EDCs. Look for paraben and sulfate-free products.
6. Tight pants. Skinny jeans, tight underwear, and other tight pants lower sperm count and fertility because your package can’t breathe and effectively regulate temperature. However, they should always be supported, so never wear boxers. Urologists are recommending Sheath underwear, which I’ve been wearing for years. They have a dual chamber design, putting the Twins in a pouch and Big Al through a hole. You’ll stay dryer and fresher.
7. Alcohol & Dairy. (a) Alcohol adversely affects Big Al and the Twins as well as your prostate. Alcohol reduces testosterone, fertility, and sperm count because of phytoestrogens & hops and contributes to man boobs. Keep in mind that when you’re drunk, you can make bad decisions that could potentially expose you to a disease or pregnancy. Make sure you wrap that rascal. Alcohol also increases your risk of developing prostate cancer, which is on the rise. Go for regular screenings and get your PSA level checked. (b) Also, drinking a third cup of dairy a day increases your risk of prostate cancer by 25%. Also, drinking one diet soda a day with aspartame will increase your risk of developing prostate cancer by 50%. Also, the more sugar you consume, the worse your body will be. Cut back and get healthier.
8. Unhealthy diet. (a) Processed meat like hot dogs and cold cuts are horrible and will increase your risk of developing cancer because of the nitrates and preservatives. (b) If you’re not eating a healthy, clean diet but consuming a lot of saturated fat from trash food, Big Al will not be as hard as it can be. And make sure you consume enough omega-3, -6, and -9.
9. Not using Big Al. Routinely filling it with blood to become bigger, harder, and firmer. It’s like doing bicep curls.
10. Nicotine. Smoking also affects Big Al because it’s a vasoconstrictor. Instead, increase blood flow by consuming L-Arginine and L-Citrulline, our natural amino acids that increase blood flow. Your body converts them to nitric oxide, a vasodilator, allowing more blood flow to Big Al.

But not all denim was created equal. Some were created big and baggy. Some were created too skinny, and some were created to make you look like a douche. If you find the perfect pair of denim, you will look smooth, stylish, confident, and sexy. Here are the jeans you should never wear as an adult man.

Adult men should avoid these types of denim

1. Too tight. If you have a bunch of pulling or whiskering in the crotch area of your pants, this is a sign that your crotch is too big or you need to size up. If your fly is perpetually open, this is another sign that your package is huge or you need to size up. Another sign is if you can see a wedgie or any type of cheek definition, your jeans are too tight. You need to have a little room but still showcase and highlight your booty. You should be able to pinch about an inch of fabric on either side of your thigh. If you have big thighs, this may be a bit more challenging, but the good news is you can find athletic tapered denim, which will allow for more room in the crotch, thighs, and glutes region.
2. Too baggy. Dad jeans are baggy, and they’re kind of a trend, but the truth is that they don’t look good on most guys. If you’re young or really stylish, they may be okay, but most of us can’t get away with Dad jeans because we’ll look short and dumpy.
3. Puddling. If your jeans are too long, you’ll have puddling at your ankles, which is not ideal. You do not want a bunch of extra fabric down at your ankles. You don’t want denim that has been walked or stepped on, discolored, and beaten up at the bottom. But you also don’t want them too short. I’m not talking about cuffing or cropping to show your ankle; I’m talking about jeans that are too short. A lot of super-tall men have difficulty finding jeans that are long enough. High-end designer jeans will have longer options. If you’re a shorter guy, most of the jeans sold in stores will not be short enough, but you can go online and find options.
4. Casual jeans dressed up. A lot of men make the mistake of thinking that casual, lighter-wash jeans that have a little bit of distressing can be dressed up with dress shoes and a sports coat, possibly a sweater. They cannot. If you want to dress up jeans, they must be standard, dark-wash, non-distressed jeans. Further, do not wear denim with crazy bling and details on the pockets. Keep your jeans simple with a minimal aesthetic.
5. Hanging off your booty. Pull your jeans up. If they can’t stay up, get a belt. A belt will make or break an outfit, so you must ensure your belt is not beaten up, marred, or scarred. Nasty belts are not stylish. Check out the Anson belt with micro-adjustments, which are versatile, can express your individual style, pull an outfit together, and don’t have any holes. For a limited time, head to Anson Belt & Buckle for a special deal. I recommend the Box Set, which gives you six possible belt combos for under $100. Also, sign up for their email list and “Anson TXT Club” for exclusive offers.
6. Beat up or distressed. These types of denim used to be popular about five years ago, but not anymore. You will literally look like you’re trying too hard.
7. White denim. These colored jeans make you look like you’re trying too hard as well. You look like a dork. Opt for black, gray, or dark jeans that fit you properly. It all boils down to fit and proper outfit coordination. If you’re wearing a dorky dad sweater with a pair of sexy black jeans and boat shoes, you’ll look horrible because the outfit does not coordinate or match.
8. Big cuffs. Cuffing your jeans is appropriate if they are a little too long. But you need to roll them up properly by ensuring the cuff is stylized. If you want to show off your ankle or the type of denim you’re wearing, that’s great, but you should not have to roll your jeans three to five times. It’ll look like a croissant rather than a nice, clean cuff. Get your jeans shortened or buy a shorter size.

Remember, when it comes to style, it’s not just about what you do when you go to work or go out with your friends. It’s about how you style yourself anywhere, whether going to the grocery store or the gym. I’m not saying that you need to wear a three-piece suit or Versace, but you need to be diligent and choose the items that make you feel good and are appropriate regardless of where you are or who you are with.

The key to looking stylish at the gym

1. Footwear. You have to make sure you’re wearing the correct footwear. You should not wear Crocs, sandals, flip-flops, nasty, worn-out sneakers, or stinky boots. I’ve literally seen work boots and slippers. An insane incident that I saw recently was bare feet. Never be barefoot! You should also be wearing socks.
2. Shorts. Do not wear super short shorts. Also, long shorts will make you look super short. Ensure your shorts go down about mid-thigh or about an inch above your knee. If you’re wearing mesh shorts, you must ensure you’re wearing underwear because nobody wants to see your wiener flopping around. Cargo shorts and khakis are out. And anything with pleats is out. Make sure the shorts you’re wearing fit properly and are stretchy so that you can move.
3. Pants. Don’t wear spandex pants alone because nobody wants to see your package. Make sure your pants aren’t too big and baggy. They should not be puddling and pooling around your feet. Another downside to wearing baggy pants is that they make you look short. Squishy pants with huge openings are not stylish either. You want pants that are tailored and tapered.
4. Sweatpants. The type with the standard elastic waistband at the bottoms also are not your best option. Opt for joggers, the best gym pants, because they look fantastic both in the gym and when you’re out and about casually, as athleisure.
5. T-shirts. Don’t wear a T-shirt with anything offensive. I also don’t wear stinky T-shirts.
6. Sports fabric shirts. A downside to many sports shirts is the moisture-wicking fabric because, often, that synthetic fabric allows bacteria to get inside the fibers, and you need to use a sports detergent to avoid stinking. Also, hang up your sweaty items to dry before tossing them into the hamper. Further, wash your clothes inside out to help get the funk and stink out of the fabric. Water temperature should be as hot as possible to remove the stink from workout clothing. Another point is not to wear skin-tight clothing. You’re not as lean as you think, so stretching these items over your body shows off all the nooks, crannies, and softness like love handles and man boobs. Stubble catches on the fabric, too. You also don’t want your gut hanging out while working out.
7. Sweatshirts. Don’t wear big oversized ratty sweatshirts. Show off more of what’s underneath by having a sweatshirt fit properly and doesn’t make you look like a little boy with many big logos and designs. Ensure you are opting for more subdued colors and patterns and that they coordinate. Nothing screams look at me like the wrong clothing.
8. No-go tank tops. Homemade tank tops are bad and look bad on literally everybody. Do not expose your man boob meat and soft doughy middle. They also make you look small because moving the sleeve so low makes the shirt look like a box. Wife beaters are a no-go.
9. Appropriate tanks. An alternative for a tank top is straps that are thinner but not super crazy tight and a body that fits well that’s not skin tight.
10. Hats. Hats are appropriate in the gym setting, such as a simple baseball hat. But don’t turn the hat sideways. I’ve softened about a backward hat because it does make you look more youthful. Ensure your hats are clean, compliment your outfit, and don’t smell like ass. Never tuck your ears into your hat because that looks lame.

1. Muffin top. You look smooth and sexy, but you end up looking like a can of biscuits that’s just exploded from your pants. The only solution is a tailored shirt. Stop messing around with tucking your shirt into your underwear or shirt stays. Simply buy a tailored shirt. You’ll still have minor popping that happens, but you won’t have tons of extra fabric exploding around your midsection.
2. Sloppy sleeve rolls. The solution is taking your sleeve all the way down and then bringing it up to where your arm bends. Take your hand underneath the sleeve and move it around so that you’re tucking the sleeve. Check out the demonstration in the video.
3. Jacked up gig lines. The gig line is the line from your placket down to your fly. To look your best, make sure it’s clean and aligned. That seam should go straight down and in line perfectly with your fly.
4. Basic & boring polo. You want to look like James Bond in your polo, so your collar must stand up and tight. It can’t be laying down and quitting on you. Also, the sleeves should not be too high or too long. Most of the polos found in stores have a casual fabric that is impossible to combine and blend with more dressy aesthetics. But check out my option from Collars & Co., which solves the basic boring polo problem with a rigid collar, perfect sleeves, and buttery soft fabric. You can wear them by themselves or layered. You can also wear them casual, business casual, or dressed up. Use code ALPHAM  for a special limited-time discount on your Collars & Co. order!
5. Tech watches. Any type of tech watch, like an Apple watch, is not stylish.
6. Dirty white sneakers. Make sure your shoes stay white by using a Magic Eraser. Also, a gum sole is a great option for guys not responsible for cleaning their shoes. Speaking of dirty, worn-out shoelaces are a style destroyer. These shoelaces include sneakers, lace-up brogues, and dress shoes. You must ensure that your laces look perfectly clean and replace them at least once a year. Sometimes, you may have to do it twice.
7. Boat shoes. They are not old-money aesthetic; they are old-school stupid. They make men look unstylish and like a little boy. Mature adult men that are stylish, you’re not wearing boat shoes.
8. Stringless hoodies. If the hoodie once had a string, it must be there. If not, the outfit looks wack. If you wash it and the string falls out, there’s an easy solution by grabbing a straw and simply sticking the hoodie string inside the straw. And get a bit of Scotch tape, wrap it around the end so it stays, and then thread the straw through the hoodie. Another tip is to tie the strings in a knot before washing and then untie after washing. Make sure to do it as soon as possible so you’re not left with a crimped string.
9. Inside sunglasses. Wearing sunglasses inside will kill your image and make you look like a douche.
10. Pants. Make sure you wear your pants pulled up, even if it means you must wear a belt. Also, do not wear denim that is skin-tight. Reciprocally, do not wear baggy and loose jeans. Wearing pants that are too long will make you look bad as well. Take your pants to the tailor to make sure your pants fit properly.