Shoes – Alpha M https://iamalpham.com Men's Lifestyle Coach for Style, Grooming, and Fitness Wed, 17 Jan 2024 23:40:57 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.3 https://iamalpham.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/cropped-favicon-2-32x32.png Shoes – Alpha M https://iamalpham.com 32 32 Stop Wearing Boots WRONG! How to PROPERLY Match Boots With Jeans, Chinos, Pants, Slacks https://iamalpham.com/stop-wearing-boots-wrong-how-to-properly-match-boots-with-jeans-chinos-pants-slacks/ Wed, 17 Jan 2024 23:40:57 +0000 https://alpham.com/?p=53940 The other night, I went out to dinner and saw this man walk in. He looked great — super stylish, with amazing hair, and an incredible outfit. He was on point until I saw his shoes. He destroyed his outfit! He was so close! His boots were super cool, but they were more appropriate for jeans. So I want to cover how to properly dress up boots, whether or not you’re wearing jeans or next level such as chinos, slacks or even a suit.

Boots are the sexiest most rugged and unbelievably manly shoes that a guy can wear. The trick is knowing how to combine wearing boots properly because you can take a potential boot opportunity and turn it into a liability by wearing the wrong ones. All the boots that I wear are from Thursday Boots. Thursday Boots are an investment in comfort & confidence. Get yourself a great pair of boots with free shipping & returns today!

Boots bearing rules

Don’t wear cheap boots. If it’s a moral thing, like you’re vegan, that’s fine. But if you want to pinch a penny, don’t do it. Cheap book boots look cheap and fall apart quickly. Spend just a little bit more money and get real leather. They will look amazing!

Do not wear dressy boots with casual jeans. Some boots are casual but some are a little more elevated and aesthetic. Casual boots go with casual jeans. Never wear dressy boots with casual jeans. When wearing dressy boots, some are created to be more casual than others.

Choose brown when dressing up a pair of boots. Brown is more fashion-forward. Guys are comfortable with black because it matches everything. Brown can too, and it adds another level of richness and texture to an outfit. Check out my examples. You can get multiple boots so you can have both colors.

Change the aesthetic of your outfit by switching your boots. Go from something dark and mysterious to more surprising and daring by switching from a black boot to a gray suede boot.

You can dress down a dressy boots but you can’t dress up a casual boot. Dressy boots vs casual boots:

  • Suede is casual; same with matte leather.
  • Stitches around the toe are casual.
  • Shinier is dressier.
  • Rubber soles and ones that stick out further than the upper or the leather are casual.
  • Laces are more casual as well.
  • Dressy is cleaner.
  • Brogues laced up can be versatile.
  • The toe is another indicator: tapered is dressier.
  • The clean, low profile is dressier.
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25 Items Grown Men Should NEVER Wear https://iamalpham.com/items-grown-men-should-never-wear/ Fri, 01 Sep 2023 05:12:01 +0000 https://alpham.com/?p=53359 Certain items are in no way, shape, or form acceptable for a grown man to wear. As you mature, your style must as well.
  1. Biker jacket. Many people say that leather jackets are unacceptable if you’re over a certain age. This is so stupid, and it drives me crazy. A leather jacket can be clean, basic, and perfect for any aged dude. If you’re older, the motorcycle-inspired jacket doesn’t necessarily look as good because it’s edgy and stylized. But if you ride bikes, then it’s definitely super cool. The racer jacket, trucker jacket, and bomber are perfect regardless of your age. Make sure your outfit is consistent with the rest of your style.
  2. Apple watch. They are not mature or stylish. They’re cool if you’re a little dude.
  3. Velcro wallet, packed wallet, or fake leather wallet. These are not grown-up, and you want to ensure your pockets aren’t loaded. Don’t jam-pack a bunch of crap in your pockets that will distort and throw off your sexy vibe.
  4. Extreme denim. Whether it’s super tight, super loose, super baggy, super distressed, super torn, or super ripped, if your jeans are extreme, you should never wear them as an adult.
  5. Shorts past the knee. You want to expose two inches above the knee minimum as an adult. This includes swim shorts.
  6. Fake designer goods. Whether or not it’s a phony belt, t-shirt, shoes, watches, or more, there is zero reason to buy something counterfeit. If you can’t afford it, save up for it or buy something else. Don’t worry about brand names and logos. There are a lot of incredibly high-quality items that are low-cost.
  7. Crocs and Dad sandals. A nice clean flip-flop like a Rainbow or a Birkenstock is acceptable, but make sure your feet aren’t funky.
  8. Funky body spray. This is a deal breaker for adult dudes.
  9. Worn-out belts. Belts with holes can get scored and sloppy. Anson stays sexy with micro-adjustments, in which straps and buckles are interchangeable.
  10. Mismatched belt + shoe leathers. Ensure your leather belt matches your shoes. Opt for a clean and simple belt that coordinates with your option outfit. Also, I love canvas straps from Anson. You can add color and pizzazz to your outfits. And a biggie here — No self-respecting dude wears a white belt with white shoes. Choose something like a camo or another badass color.
  11. Air Force Ones. If you’re an adult dude, do not wear them!
  12. Tons of accessories. When you’re younger, you can get away with puka shell necklaces and bunches of bracelets. But not as an adult. Don’t wear toe rings, get your belly button pierced, or have facial piercings because you’ll appear to be low-class and low-budget.
  13. Face and neck tattoos. You shouldn’t have tattoos on your hands, either. You could risk not being hired.
  14. Untailored suit. As an adult man, you need to spend a little cash on having a tailored suit. You need your suit to fit you.
  15. Super thin ties. Don’t do it! It looks super dorky.
  16. Pocket square + tie combo. Don’t ever wear this.
  17. Gear on your suit. Wearing a bunch of gear, such as flowers, lapel pins, and pocket squares, with your suit is not sexy.
  18. Funny socks, ties, and underwear. These aren’t funny.
  19. Tighty whities. If you’re an adult man, get rid of your tighty whities. Also, boxers are stupid.
  20. Fedora hats. Some hats are okay, but fedora hats aren’t anymore.
  21. Backward baseball hats. These make you look like a punk. When you mature, your cap should rotate around to the front.
  22. Lame sunglasses. Young dudes can get away with wearing fun sunglasses, but as you mature, you must wear a cleaner, classier, and classic pair of sunglasses or risk looking stupid.
  23. Offensive tees and tanks. This includes offensive graphic tees and horrible tank tops. Do not wear homemade tank tops either because they make you look stupid and like a guido. Don’t wear wife beaters either.
  24. Too loud, bright, or vibrant shirts. These will reduce your sexiness. Little boy striped polos should be avoided.
  25. Too big or baggy shirt. This is not a good look. But don’t have it too tight either. Skip super deep v-necks, too.
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Boots Men Should NEVER Wear https://iamalpham.com/boots-men-should-never-wear/ Thu, 24 Aug 2023 05:30:11 +0000 https://alpham.com/?p=53351 Boots can make you look and feel like a badass, but unfortunately, not all boots are created equal. Some boots will make you look like a dumbass. So, I’m going to go over a few boots that you should never ever wear.

Boots are the most rugged and masculine footwear option for dudes. Slipping them on makes you feel more confident and look like a badass. You look rugged and more masculine. But one of the other things I love about books is that boots will give you an extra two inches of height. That being said, I see men wearing boots they shouldn’t. Thursday Boots are an investment in comfort & confidence. Click to get a great pair of Thursday Boots + free shipping & returns.

  1. Cheap boots. I’m talking about the quality, not the price. Fake leather or plastic boots are not quality and will fall apart after a season. You’ll have to reinvest in a new pair. In the long run, ‘cheap boots’ will be more expensive than boots made of genuine leather. Natural leather will last longer, feel better, and look better. It looks better with time and age than cheap plastic boots that fall apart quickly.
  2. Dramatic boots. You should never wear a boot with a dramatic toe, such as too pointy, bulky, or square. You want the toe to be more natural and rounded. Check out my example of a classic boot that has a cap toe and a little detail. It’s nice and round and not too pointy or square. It’s not too bulky.
  3. Wrong boot combo. You should always wear the correct combination of dressiness with boots. When pairing boots with an outfit, some are ultra-casual, while others are dressier. If not coordinated, you will look silly. Check out the options that go from super casual to more formal. You can take your outfits into a different dimension level when paired correctly.
  4. Boots + stretched over denim. You don’t need to have your pants go over the top of the boots. So if you wear skinny jeans or slim fit, the boots’ top will look weird and awkward with denim stretched over. I love Chelsea boots because you can wear them with skinnier or thinner pants opening due to the lack of laces. Another option is cuffing your jeans to expose your boot. This is totally cool and more stylized, especially with raw denim, due to the detail down by the ankle when cuffed. You want to avoid the pant leg stacked when wearing boots with slacks or dressier pants. You want to ensure the pants’ legs are large enough to lay nice and cleanly over the top of the boots.
  5. Uncoordinated boots and belts. Boot and belt matching can get tricky. Wear a high-shine black belt if you’re wearing high-shine black boots. But casual boots should be paired with a more casual belt such as fabric or canvas. For instance, a brown suede boot can be paired with a fabric or canvas belt. The beautiful thing about suede is its rich texture, so adding another material to the mix while coordinating with your outfit is fantastic. Check out my other examples.
  6. Bulky boots. Boots with a lot of stuffing, padding, or weird soft shapes will make you look shorter. They are also not aesthetic. Go for a lower-profile boot.
  7. Boots that have to be broken in. If you slip on boots that are not comfortable immediately, the boots are not suitable for you. The belief of having to break in shoes and boots is a big misconception. The break-in process often means you’ll have blisters and pain, and you won’t be able to enjoy your boots fully. Thursday Boots has no break-in. You literally slip them on, and they’re comfortable.
  8. Super expensive boots. I used to think you needed to spend $500 to $1,000 on boots to look stylish. You don’t. You’re simply paying for a brand name.
  9. Super trendy boots. You should look for timeless boots in terms of color, construction, and shape. If you do this, your boots will last longer and look better.
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6 Sneakers Adult Men Should NEVER Wear https://iamalpham.com/6-sneakers-adult-men-should-never-wear/ Thu, 15 Jun 2023 05:30:01 +0000 https://alpham.com/?p=53043 Sneakers are a men’s style essential that every guy should own. The problem is that many guys wear the wrong sneakers because there’s a thin line between looking stylish, smooth, and fresh … and looking like a huge dumbass. Today I’m going over sneakers that adult dudes should never wear. My minimal sneakers come from Thursday Boots. They have a new collection too. Unbelievably sexy!

Shoes that make a man unsexy!

  1. Athletic shoes with the wrong clothing. A man should never wear athletic shoes with non-athletic clothing. Men will wear running or athletic shoes with jeans, chinos, flat-front khakis, or shorts, which any of these are unstylish.
  2. Dirty white sneakers. Make sure your white sneakers are not discolored with scratches and scuffs. It will make you look like a massive slob. Also, make sure the sole is white if they are white. I use a Magic Eraser to clean mine. You can go over any area that might have a little dirt. If you don’t want to mess with cleaning white soles, opt for a gum sole that doesn’t show dirt.
  3. Bulky white sneakers. Sneakers like Air Force ones look fine for young dudes. But if you’re an adult man, you want to look for a leaner anesthetic. Bulky sneakers will make men look short and more casual. It’s also impossible to dress up bulky, casual sneakers. However, you can wear a great pair of minimal sneakers and a suit. Check out my demonstration with a lightweight fabric suit which is great for a summer barbecue or an evening out. You can even lose the jacket and kill it — sexy and clean.
  4. Not coordinating correctly. When wearing something like a Jordan One (one of my all-time favorite sneakers), they come in many badass colors. Most older men look stupid because they’re not rocking the appropriate fit. It’s all about coordination. You could opt for something with attitude and edge that is still a bit retro-inspired such as the Air Max. They come in a ton of different colors, and you can dress them up a bit, such as rocking them with jeans.
  5. Ultra-stylized shoes. Older dudes don’t look great in these trendy shoes. It’s hard to pull them off. Another downside to trendy shoes is that they are expensive. These shoes really stand out; the truth is, shoes shouldn’t be telling people to look at them. They should tie the outfit together. Plus, ultra-stylized shoes can make you look like a huge douche. Instead, like my tan suede ones, go for something solid in color. They’ll work for years.
  6. Retro-sneakers at the inappropriate time. They are super casual and sporty — great for the gym, running around on the weekend, and sporty outfits. Don’t wear these retro-inspired sneakers with jeans.  Instead, opt for a minimal white style.
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How to PROPERLY Wear Boots! | Top 5 Boot Wearing Dos & Don’ts https://iamalpham.com/how-to-properly-wear-mens-boots/ Thu, 08 Sep 2022 05:30:06 +0000 https://alpham.com/?p=51637 Today’s video is all about my favorite footwear. Badass boots! More specifically, I will review my top boot-wearing do’s and don’ts to ensure that you always look your best whenever you wear your most badass footwear. I’m breaking this down into two parts: the first part goes over the do’s and don’ts, and the second part shows you outfits and my favorite ways to rock badass boots.

Thursday Boots is your best boot-bang for your buck. They recently dropped some new boots that are absolutely insane! I love my new gray Captains; they are incredibly masculine, sexy, and a bit different. Thursday Boots are comfortable right out of the box. Upgrade and elevate your wardrobe this fallen winter with some boots. Thursday Boots full collection of comfortable, versatile, & durable boots.

How to wear casual and dressy boots

  1. There are dressy, casual, and work boots. When dressing boots up or down, make sure the boot you’re wearing is suitable for the outfit. Work boots are a unique situation we’re not going to address.
  2. Know your different types of boots, which I will take a quick rundown of. The Chelsea boot is a casual or dressy slip-on. Lace-up boots are more casual and come in refined options. It’s a clean, simple, and sexy boot That is incredibly rugged. The lace-up can also be a bit dressier with a brogued wingtip. A chukka boot is another lace-up option that looks more like a desert boot and is less rigid inform and structure.
  3. Choose the correct boot for your particular pair of jeans. If the jeans you wear are more casual, which can be a little lighter or distressed, choose a more casual boot. If you’re wearing a darker washed and non-distressed in them, super casual boots look stupid. You’ll want to go with something a little more refined and polished.
  4. Know how to style where your boots and jeans meet. Never tuck your jeans into your boots. Also, stack your denim (don’t try to pull your jean super tight over the top of your boots). If you want to cuff your denim, this step adds detail to your jeans and exposes your boots.
  5. Every dude should have some boots in his wardrobe, and one pair might not be enough because boots are incredible. They make you look a bit tougher and more badass. Also, boots make me a bit taller as a short dude. They’ll give you an extra inch to an inch and a half to your height.

Check out how I style my boots

  • Slim-fit cargo pants, President boots, a white tee-shirt, denim jacket.
  • Gray over shirt, white tee-shirt, black slim fit jeans, Captain boots.
  • Suede bomber jacket, white tee-shirt, black jeans, Captain boots.
  • Black Henley, green bomber, denim jeans, black Chelsea boots.
  • Gray light white sweater, lightweight blue pants, wingtip brogue boots.
  • Gray suit with chalk stripe (with or without the jacket), black polo, suit pants, dressy boots.
  • Leather jacket from Thursday Boots, white tee-shirt, distressed slim fit gray jeans, Cavalier boots.
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9 WORST Shoe Mistakes Men Make {… and How to Fix Them}! https://iamalpham.com/worst-shoe-mistakes-fixes-men-make/ Fri, 10 Jun 2022 05:30:01 +0000 https://alpham.com/?p=51259 Shoes have the ability to make or break an outfit. If you choose the right shoes, you can take the average outfit and make it perfection. But on the flip side, if you choose the wrong shoes, you can take a potentially great outfit and make it horrendous. To help you elevate your shoe game and always make the sexiest shoe choice, I’m going over some of the biggest men’s footwear don’ts.

Biggest men’s footwear DON’Ts

  1. Don’t wear flip flops or sandals with fugly toes– If you’re wearing them, you have to make sure your toes aren’t funky, nasty, crusty, thick, or discolored.
  2. Don’t wear boat shoes … ever – Boat shoes are ugly. There’s nothing sexy going on. Why would you want to wear something like that when you could wear something sexy like a minimal leather sneaker? You can dress a minimal leather sneaker up or down, they look great with shorts, and they look great with chinos too. You can pair them pretty much with anything.
  3. Don’t waste your money on trendy sneaks – What’s going on with men’s footwear right now is insane as the trends are going to change, and you literally spent a ton of money on super outlandish sneakers that you will never wear again. Instead, go with something more timeless that will work 6 months, a year, or 2 years from now. You need to have the basics covered.
  4. Don’t wear dirty white sneakers – Pro alpha tip is to grab a box of Magic Erasers to keep your soles white and leather clean.
  5. Do not dress up running shoes  — It’s not a good look, and it just doesn’t work. Perfect in terms of the proportion, the Thursday boot white sneaker has a sexy profile that I love.
  6. Don’t have visible no-show socks – Check out my demonstration. You want a new sock that disappears when you slip it on. That’s the whole idea of wearing a no-show sock in the summer.
  7. Don’t wear overly dramatic or pointy footwear – Go for a more subtle toe box that is a bit more natural and versatile.
  8. Don’t wear beat up or scuffed leather shoes – If you don’t have time to polish your shoes or are not interested in learning, grab an Instant Shine Sponge for polishing shoes. You can quickly take out superficial nicks or scuffs.
  9. Don’t wear fake leather shoes – If you are buying fake leather shoes because you think they’re cheaper, they are not in the long-run. You will have to replace cheap plastic shoes more often than leather shoes. If you invest a little more money, the leather shoes will be higher quality and last longer. Thursday Boot offers a premium product for an incredible price, which their shoes not only look better but last longer.
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6 Shoes Men Should NEVER Wear With Jeans! https://iamalpham.com/men-should-never-wear-these-shoes-with-denim-jeans/ Thu, 23 Sep 2021 05:30:08 +0000 https://alpham.com/?p=50310 Nothing makes you look sexier than when you rock a perfect pair of denim — jeans that when you slip them on, you look and feel incredible. But it doesn’t matter how bangin’ your booty looks if you’re wearing shoes that make you look like a dork. Here are a few shoes that you should NEVER wear with jeans.

Don’t mix-and-mingle these shoes with denim

  1. Running shoes — athletic shoes are designed for the gym, working out, or running. Instead, wear Chuck Taylors, Vans, Adidas, Puma, or minimal leather sneakers. Also, be sure to tie them properly so the laces lay nicely across your shoes — check out my tutorial in this video.
  2. Black dress shoes — there’s nothing worse than a shiny pair of black dress shoes with a pair of denim. If you want dress shoes, brown is a much better option. Also, don’t wear shiny shoes with denim. The shinier the dress shoe, the imbalance is worse. Opt for a matte finish instead. A few options that look amazing with denim are simple clean brown loafers (with or without socks), tassel loafers, single monk straps, and wing tips (double monk, slip-on loafer, lace-up).
  3. Cowboy, biker, or pointy boots — slim fit or standard fit jeans (aka tapered jeans) will not fall right over cowboy boots or biker boots. Also, don’t wear pointy boots as they’re dated. Choose, instead, a more rugged boot with a cap toe + side zipper or a Chelsea boot like my brown suede version that has a patina toe. I also love my boots with laces.
  4. Boat shoes — there are so many better alternatives. But if you have to wear boat shoes, wear them with lightweight cotton pants like chinos. And if you rock them with shorts, don’t wear socks.
  5. Mandels — if you must wear these, wear them with shorts but never with jeans. In regard to flip flops worn with jeans, I could go either way. I have seen this combination look good, but I’ve also seen it look pretty bad. Rules for wearing flip flops include: don’t wear them too big, don’t have your toes hanging over like claws, and don’t have funky feet.
  6. Dirty, nasty, scuffed shoes + laces — use a Magic Eraser to keep your shoes and soles clean. Make sure  your shoes aren’t scuffed either. Use a sponge + polish to rub over scuffs on your boots. Learn how to do a proper polish, which can also be a bit therapeutic and fun.

Thursday Boots

I just got my new brogued wingtip boots from Thursday Boots, and it’s quite possibly the sexiest pair of boots I’ve ever seen! And their jackets are perfection. Upgrade and elevate your boot game for fall: https://thursdayboots.com/alpha-m

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8 UGLY Shoes Men Should NEVER Wear! https://iamalpham.com/8-ugly-shoes-men-should-never-wear/ Thu, 22 Jul 2021 05:30:00 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/?p=49985 Some shoes are sexy, and some are plain UGLY! It doesn’t matter how smooth & stylish you’re looking; if you’re wearing ugly ass shoes, you’re wearing ugly ass shoes! And it’s not just you who makes bad decisions; I bought some of these ugly shoes. Here’s how to identify six ugly shoes you shouldn’t wear.

These shoes look OFFENSIVE!

  1. Boat shoes — they are the ugliest shoes a dude can wear. Instead, rock clean minimal leather sneakers.
  2. Slip-on hiking shoes — they’ll make you look like a huge nerd, and they are just plain ugly.
  3. Lame loafers — double monk strap, fuzz/fur, and moccasin types (deconstructed) are all ‘no.’
  4. Athletic sneaker + non athletic clothes — instead wear retro-inspired kicks or minimal leather sneakers if you’re wearing non athletic clothes.
  5. Dramatic toes — pointy or square should not be rocked.
  6. Hyped-up sneaks — stop spending astronomical prices for these sneakers! You’ll only wear them for a short period until something else trendy will come into play. Buy another affordable option until prices regulate.
  7. Anything that shows your toes IF you’re not responsible with your feet — you need to get the crusty, funky, and calloused toes taken care of. If they are fine, flip flops are okay.
  8. Fake leather shoes — save a little more and buy real leather. They will look better, be more comfortable, and last 7xs longer. Invest a little more money for quality.

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10 Shoes Men Wear That Women HATE! https://iamalpham.com/shoes-men-wear-that-women-hate/ Thu, 27 May 2021 05:30:00 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/?p=49333 The super sassy hair styling sirens of Salon Posta are back! The inspiration for this video is their brutal honesty about Alpha’s footwear. BTW, girls DO notice your shoes! They ARE looking, so make sure your shoe game is not weak or whack.

Women don’t like these types of men’s footwear

  1. Flip flops — they shouldn’t be super big. Alpha thinks the flip flops (Rainbow brand) can be rocked in the right situation.
  2. Birkenstock sandals and mandals — it boils down to seeing your toes. If you expose your toes, make sure they’re taken care of.
  3. Cowboy boots — there are better boots that are amazing, however, such as the chukka and Chelsea boot. Alpha shows different versions.
  4. Running shoes with jeans — it looks terrible. Instead wear retro inspired sneakers. You can elevate the style by investing in white minimal leather sneakers or black/brown with leather laces. Try out a leather high-top to step outside your style box.
  5. Crocs — you look like you’re going to kindergartner. They are great yard shoes but don’t wear them anywhere else.
  6. Boat shoes — Alpha has never liked boat shoes (they aren’t stylish).
  7. Shiny business shoes — super shiny (patent leather) needs to be taken down in shine. Look for a clean loafer, and match the finish of the shoe matches your belt.  Laces on dress shoes should also be changed to loafer or double monk.
  8. Snakeskin printed shoes — ‘look at me shoes’
  9. Sketchers — some are fugly
  10. DIRTY shoes! — make sure you keep your shoes, laces, leather, and soles clean. Use a Magic Eraser to keep them super clean.

 

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6 Shoes Stylish Guys DON’T Wear! https://iamalpham.com/stylish-guys-do-not-wear-these-shoes/ Wed, 18 Dec 2019 06:30:04 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/?p=45758 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
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Every great outfit starts at the feet. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM  https://iamalpham.com/ AaronMarino https://aaronmarino.com/ Pete & Pedro https://peteandpedro.com/ Tiege Hanley https://www.tiege.com/and ENEMY https://enemy.com/ says you can take an average outfit to amazing with incredible shoes. But you can also take those same pair of shoes and make the outfit a liability.

Stylish Dudes Do NOT Wear These Shoes

  1. Owning crepe soled shoes or boots — if you wear them outside, the soles are a nightmare and look disgusting. Wear rubber soled shoes as they’ll last longer and can be re-soled.
  2. Dressing up driving moccasins — they are casual with jeans or shorts. Don’t rock them in a professional environment.
  3. Dressing up running shoes or athletic sneakers — there’s a time and place for those shoes. But if you’re going stylish, go with a white minimal sneaker either leather, canvas, or upcycled materials like from Nothing New
  4. Wearing boots with a high heel — you will look feminine.
  5. Wearing casual boots in a casual environment — Alpha goes over the different style levels.
  6. Wearing biker boots or cowboy boots with skinny jeans — Alpha demonstrates why it looks weird.

Stylish Guys DO Wear These!

If you are looking or in the market for a super badass, high-quality, sexy pair of boots.you have to check out Thursday Boots. They have literally changed the game in terms of offering super cool boots that are made incredibly well but aren’t going to break the bank. All of the material that goes into a pair of Thursday Boots is super premium.

Going direct to consumer, they don’t charge hundreds and hundreds of dollars. They have a huge selection of new inventory as well as the old classics and favorites that everybody loves. You just can’t go wrong with their incredibly high quality,  amazingly comfortable super stylish footwear. Thursday Boots

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How to Be MORE Stylish Than Other Dudes! | 6 Simple Men's Style Tips https://iamalpham.com/style-tips-to-be-more-stylish-than-other-dudes/ Wed, 27 Jun 2018 05:30:18 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=36421 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
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Being stylish is a skill – nobody is born stylish. But the more the practice, learn, and observe, the better at it you will get and the more stylish you’ll become. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaMAaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro  says his goal is for you to be more stylish than every single one of your friends.

Six Simple Style Tips

FACT 85% of style is about the fit. If you nail the fit for you and your body type, you’re so far ahead of almost all other dudes because most men look like ‘sloppy sacks of unstylish sh!t’.

1. Stick to a neutral palate – black, white, gray, tan, and olive as they integrate great together.

2. Go classic first, trends second – make sure your foundation is solid before adding ‘crazy’ things. You’ll save money. because the trends are expensive  and go out-of-style quickly. Alpha gives an example of white sneakers as well as a Chelsea boot. Both are from New Republic shoes – they are ‘insane’ and in terms of style, value, cost, and quality. Explore Menlo House Store

3. Join a monthly men’s box service – Menlo Club is Alpha’s recommendation. Fill out the survey and then monthly receive a curated box of two items. What sets it’s apart from other box services is that they own all the brands that they’re sending you such as New Republic, Grand AC, and Five Four Clothing. Over a course of time, you will have a wardrobe of stylish clothing. Your first box is half off + sunglasses + 25% off code to purchase from their store. Join the Club | Menlo House

4. Identify + eliminate (bag & donate to charity) + replace (do this systematically one-at-at-time once a month) + repeat

5. When you go shopping, pay attention to the mannequins so you know how to combine and coordinate items from that store.

6. Experiment to develop a sense of style – push yourself outside of your comfort zone and try different things occasionally.

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6 Clothing {Comfort Hacks} EVERY Guy Should Know! https://iamalpham.com/mens-clothing-comfort-hacks/ Mon, 26 Mar 2018 05:30:33 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=35658 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
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By now you know that it’s critical to look your best all the time – workout, have a strong grooming game, and dress to impress. The downside is that it’s not always comfortable. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaMAaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro  says he’s digging deep into his style bag of tricks for comfort hacks.

Stop Suffering for the Sake of Style!

1. Collar discomfort and irritation? Powder to keep dry and reduce friction

2. Nipple irritation and poking? Adhere the appropriate shade of band-aides

3. Jamming and adjusting your shirt to stop muffin top? Attach shirt tail garters

4. Shoes that don’t break in? Place old sneaker inserts inside each

5. No show sock irritation on the top of your foot? Spray antiperspirant

6. Shoes that are too tight? Warm them with a hair dryer

Pained by Puffy, Billowing, Bunching Shirts? Not Anymore!

No more muffin top! KK&Jay’s shirt tail garters are sick & sexy and one of Alpha’s favorite finds that he can’t believe he ever lived without. They perfected the shirt tail garters that the military first introduced. It’s all about equal tension – that’s the secret! They are super comfortable, and they are a gentle reminder to stand up straight. Alpha can spin jump without a resulting muffin top! KK&Jay offers high quality suspenders too! Treat yourself today KK&J Special Offer | code ALPHA

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STOP Chasing Fashion Fads! | 7 Trends That {Never} Go Out of Style! https://iamalpham.com/chasing-fashion-fads-style-trends/ Fri, 09 Mar 2018 06:30:09 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=35629
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It’s crazy what’s happening with men’s fashion – super hyped brands and items! All of these are fads. They go from red hot to ice cold — and then you have these items that aren’t cool anymore. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro  identified seven items that never go out of style. What do you think that will always be timeless, classic, and stylish?

Alpha’s Timeless & Classic Style Picks

1. Plain white tee shirt – clean, simple, and flawless

2. Great pair of denim – especially dark wash without distressing, zippers, and motorcycle styling.

3. Incredible black leather jacket

4. Timeless wrist watch

5. Converse Chuck Taylors

6. Ray-Ban Wayfarer

7. Navy suit – stick with a tailored suit that features pleat-free flat-front pants with a simple hem, two button jacket, and medium-width notched lapel

Stylish for Years to Come

Vincero watches are classic and will be stylish for years to come. Alpha loves his matte black chronograph. It’s sick, and he absolutely loves it! He feels like a bad ass. It’s an amazing accessory that never goes out of style. Clean and classic, these watches are timeless. Vincero watches are a perfect representation of an accessory that can be worn for generations.  Vincero watches are beautiful, sophisticated, and elegant. Alpha picked out a collection – check it out.  Grab one and use Alpha’s discount. Vincero looks crazy nuts high end with an affordable price.

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alpha m. Store Style Breakdown | ZARA https://iamalpham.com/alpha-m-store-style-breakdown-zara/ Thu, 18 Jan 2018 06:30:21 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=35203 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
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alpha m. Store Style Breakdown | Old Navy
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In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaMAaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro  is welcoming you to the 3rd installment of the alpha m. Store Style Breakdown. He’s buying an entire outfit from ZARA then rating it between 1 (worst) and 10 (best) on affordability, quality, variety, and age-range. The total of the scores will give the Alpha M. Store Style Rating.

Alpha’s only been to ZARA one time, and it’s outside of his comfort zone. But that’s what makes it fun! He’s looking forward to trying something new. The place is cool, he says he loves the place, and he thinks that he’ll go casual. The slim fit suits seem to be of good quality although he’ll continue to shop at Suit Supply for these. The shopping trip was better than expected: denim shirt  $19.99, white Henley $9.99, chinos $29.90, wind breaker $35.99, and sneakers $29.99 for total of $125.86.

The outfit starts with the weaved tan shoes that are super cool. Overall, Alpha was blown away by the selection and the prices of Zara’s shoes. The pants fit Alpha snuggly since they run slimmer. He also had to cuff them. He found a great white Henley that fits incredibly, a biker jacket that is comfortable & versatile, and a denim shirt that is a highlight for him. He was impressed with all that he’s purchased. He gives the following ratings: affordability 7, quality 5, variety 8, age-range 7.

The store style rating 6.75

Vincero Watches

Vincero makes incredible and sexy watches. Alpha’s been talking about them for the last year because their designs are incredibly beautiful with a presence. He loves his chronograph that boasts a white face, rose gold markers, and leather strap. He gets more compliments on this time piece than his Rolex, and the price is affordable. The blacked out Vincero screams BAD BOY and is one of the sexiest watches that Alpha’s seen! Check out Alpha’s curated Vincero collection. Every dude needs an incredible watch – with the discount, grab yourself one and maybe two.

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Testing a CRAZY Squeaking Shoe Hack! Does It Work? https://iamalpham.com/squeaking-shoe-hack/ Tue, 12 Dec 2017 06:30:47 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=34898 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
Something is driving Alpha crazy! He has a squeaky heel. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaMAaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro says his favorite pair of distressed Chelsea boots squeaks. A proper shoe repair guy can fix it in 2 seconds — but that’s not how Alpha rolls.

Attempt One

He researched the Internet. What did he find? Spray it with silicone spray! Alpha tests the Internet tip. The heel is made nice and dark, which is a good thing. But does it work? It was a huge fail. So, he’s going to the mall to the shoe repair.

Attempt Two

At the mall, he visits the shoe repair who tells him bad news. Alpha still has the boot and it still squeaks! The heel is not the issue — the inside of the boot is broken! Unfortunately, it sucks!

Attempt Three

Once Alpha got back to the office, he saw that the heel is breaking from the bottom of the shoe. He took 2 small screws, drilled them through, and NO SQUEAK! He fixed it! See!? Sometimes you just have to get creative! Boom, done!

 

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How to Find Amazing Shoes at {Crazy} Incredible Prices! https://iamalpham.com/amazing-shoes-incredible-price/ Thu, 16 Mar 2017 05:30:47 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=32637 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
Ace Marks Handcrafted Italy Kickstarter

Ace Marks is adding the size “E” width during this Kickstarter campaign! So they will now have “D” & “E” widths available.

A general rule, Alpha doesn’t promote Kickstarter campaigns. Although the products may be super cool, he doesn’t feel ‘right’ talking about Kickerstarter campaigns because a lot can happen from the time you donate money to actually receive the product. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro is breaking rules because Ace Marks is breaking rules with amazing shoes at a incredible price.

Why Alpha Loves Ace Marks

Alpha has talked about them before in the video 5 Shoes Styles EVERY Man {Needs} in His Wardrobe. He’s a dress shoe slut and snob, and he’s paid up to $600 for shoes and thus knows what high quality looks like. Ace Marks sells directly to customers quality shoes which should cost $600 because they are luxury (everything from the materials to construction). BUT they are selling theirs for around $200! Alpha has fallen in love with Ace Marks the company and their shoes. Why? read on.

Handcrafted Dress Shoes Reinvented for the Modern Gentleman

Ace Marks is the first bold, comfortable, and affordable handcrafted Italian leather shoe with a buyback option that strengthens communities. Kickstarter supporters will be able to send back their old Ace Marks for a $60 credit towards a new full priced pair purchased from the website. Ace Marks partnered with Career Gear, a leading national organization helping men in need, to donate the old shoes and help men get back on their feet and re-enter the work force. Last year, they donated over $15,000 in luxury dress shoes to Career Gear!

Bold Beautiful Handcrafted Italian Statement Shoes for Less Than $200

Ace Marks past campaign (2016) was the #1 shoe funded campaign ever and made Kickstarter history. Alpha is now encouraging you to check this new Kickstarter campaign because they are offering these quality luxury shoes at $180. Check out their video about how they’re handmade in Italy. For Ace Marks, they make wearable works of art and are driven by the belief that luxury should be available for everyone.

Grab Them While You Can!

Ace Marks features loafers, tassel loafers, wing tips, cap toe single monks — the collection is NUTS and beautiful! Help a great company reach their goals. If you’re inspired, like Alpha you may want to donate to get a pair like the Aron!

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Alpha loses his mind over a great pair of shoes, especially the double monk strap shoe. He loves the design and the wide variety of styles. There is no such thing as a ‘bad’ double monk shoe, and everyone is wearing them. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro talks about how loafers and lace-up brogues are ‘safe’ but double monks are a bit dangerous (the bad boy  of dress shoes).

The other day Alpha passed Saks Fifth Avenue, and passed the discounted shoes. He found a pair of Bally cognac single monk shoes that are cap toe. He doesn’t own any single monk, so he tried them on. He loves that they have a rubber sole. The shoes were 60% off, so he got them for around $200. The single monk will make a surge in popularity, and they are a sassy pair of shoe to add to your shoe arsenal.

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Summer Style | The Chino + { Double } Monks https://iamalpham.com/summer-style-chino-monks/ Wed, 22 Jun 2016 05:30:51 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=30414 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
Alpha loves his GAP slim fit jeans, but one can’t exist on amazing jeans alone. You need to step outside the denim box. You need a pair of pants that are casual, comfortable, and refined enough to dress up and down. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro presents the chino! They have a difference flavor and flare than jeans, and Alpha has been going nuts over his chinos.

For simple, fun-in-the-sun, clean casual, he pairs his chinos with double monks. He likes to go sockless with his monk straps. But, you can also ‘look’ like you’re going sockless with special socks — with flames! He got them from The GAP. Next, he cuffs the chinos with two small cuffs. He thinks it looks cool and dapper.

Three Levels of Dressing Up and Down the Chinos + Monks

  1. He pairs gray chinos and double monks (sockless) with a simply navy tee shirt and matching fabric belt. Top it off with a great pair of shades.
  2. Throw on a white polo to take it up a notch. You can also use a short sleeve button-up. You can mix-and-match and get creative.
  3. Go button-up shirt to take it up one more notch.
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The Two MOST Stylish Shoes | Double Monk Strap and Chelsea Boot https://iamalpham.com/two-most-stylish-mens-shoes/ Fri, 26 Feb 2016 06:30:54 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=29350
Can you feel it? It’s electric in the alpha M. Studios! Alpha is talking about two styles of shoes that make him weak in the knees. These shoes are amazing. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro presents two additional shoe styles that automatically elevate your style. These shoes are not your daddy’s kicks.

The Double Monk Strap – This is Alpha’s all time favorite style of shoe with it’s quirky personality, versatile nature, and simple sexy clean look. They come in a wide variety of styles from super casual to dress. Variations of the shoe style also are available, which Alpha covers (cap toe (Santoni), brogue wingtip (Two Boot New York), plain toe (Paul Evans)). Alpha demonstrates the double monks with jeans, chinos, and a suit.

The Chelsea Boot – The aesthetics are simple without a lot of laces or a monstrous sole. They are brilliant and available in different styles from ultra casual (beat-up, rugged) to refined. They get better with age, like wine. They look incredible with a cool patina (Thursday Boots). He also demonstrates a refined boot (Paul Evans) with a suit. They also work with great dark washed jeans or with a casual outfit to kill it when grabbing a beer with the boys.

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8 Winter Style Must Haves | Men's Cold Weather Fashion Essentials https://iamalpham.com/mens-winter-cold-weather-style/ Mon, 18 Jan 2016 06:30:09 +0000 https://iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/?p=29058 Subscribe to Alpha M. on YouTube
Pea Coat Price Points | Does Higher Price Equal Higher Quality?
ELMA Deerskin Leather Cashmere-Lined Gloves
Parr and Co. Watches
How to Buy Perfect Boots | 5 Boot Buying Tips
Man Bag 101 | Why Every Guy Needs a Satchel
This season is Alpha’s favorite season because of the amazing men’s style staples and cold weather accessories. In this video men’s style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro is discussing how to look good and stay warm while knocking it out of the style park.
  1. Pea coat – jacket perfection! It works great with business casual as well it can be dressed down with jeans.
  2. Lightweight leather gloves – just what the style doctor ordered when they’re lined. They’re hard to find in stores; however, Amazon has a great selection.
  3. Watch – Parr & Co. is Alpha’s latest and is simple and clean. His piece features a gray tweed band, and the quick release strap is cool so you can change out your straps in other seasons!
  4. Scarf – scarves are an amazing way to add detail, dimension, interest, depth, and color into an outfit. Scarves can change the look and feel of an outfit.
  5. Light weight v-neck sweater – Alpha’s is from The GAP.
  6. Knit hat – Alpha’s gotta cover up those elf ears! A simple knit hat is never far away.
  7. Boots – rock some amazing, rugged, and masculine boots. Thursday Boots makes incredibly high quality boots at an amazing price. Check out Alpha’s latest acquisition.
  8. Man bag -keep your clean lines and symmetry of your jacket! Carry your winter gear as well as your manly essentials in a man bag. Nutsac is Alpha’s bag of choice.
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